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Absence and Apologies

05/19/2007
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I’ve been super busy working with a Gentleman who you will hear more about in the future.

He has decided to take the plunge in a big way and has moved to Siberia to see for himself the things that I have been describing in this site.

It’s still early into his migration and he hasn’t been disappointed yet.

In fact I believe he’s witnessing for himself just how deep this rabbit hole goes.

And it’s all good Gentlemen.

It’s been neat re-experiencing the sense of wonder again through his eyes as he comes into contact with various ladies.

As he says.. It’s the “mirror opposite” of what he’s experienced most of his life regarding the destructive wave of Feminism in North America.

It’s great to see another Man blossoming in the sun again.

In anycase hang in there because I’ll be back folks.

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37 Responses to Absence and Apologies

  1. Hero on 05/19/2007 at 10:34 pm

    Great! I want to know how to follow in his footsteps.

  2. Calvin on 05/20/2007 at 1:43 am

    Thats great to hear. Good luck to him.

  3. Shaun Alexander on 05/20/2007 at 7:49 am

    Sounds like a great “case study” coming up!

    Just keep him in Siberia and out of the major cities (for his own good!).

    I like the term “mirror opposite” – it’s so true.

  4. Tom Thumb on 05/20/2007 at 10:19 pm

    Welcome back GL,

    Look forward to your next posting.

    I hope that the gentlemen you are helping has great success.

    It will b interesting to follow his story.

    Tom

  5. Calvin on 05/20/2007 at 11:29 pm

    Yeah, especially in Moscow. Many of the girls aren’t exactly looking for husbands. If you do go to Moscow choose your words carefully least you give the cab driver or anyone you talk to the wrong impression. They’ll find you a girl alright… Don’t put yourself in the situation of having to tell a big burly ex-kgb guy no. Even some of the Hotels will try to pimp girls to you. Don’t support sexual slavery. Don’t even put yourself in that situation. Keep your agenda to yourself and try to find advice from here.

  6. Calvin on 05/20/2007 at 11:32 pm

    I guess its 10x worse if you look like you might be a young American military guy. You have to beat the ho’s off with a stick. I just wish the right type of girl would start hitting on me.

  7. Hero on 05/21/2007 at 10:26 am

    Wow Calvin, you just described Manila too! I guess big cities are the same wherever you go.

  8. rule62 on 05/22/2007 at 7:06 pm

    I’ll be anxious to hear about your new apprentice. I am off to St Petersburg tomorrow (Russia, not Florida). I’ll report after my return.

  9. Tom Thumb on 05/22/2007 at 10:12 pm

    Take care rule62.

    Safe journey :-)

    Tom

  10. Canuck on 05/23/2007 at 10:28 am

    I have for a very long time now contended that it is a significantly better personal life move to relocate to Russia.

    The influence of sociology in remolding a Russian girl in the Feminazi West is just too negative and unavoidable for my peace of mind. Thankfully Russia’s opportunities change, and independent business types can take advantage of this.

    Remember the movie “Babe”? where the pig thinks its a sheep dog? So all that you know and love in a Russian girl cannot also be remolded? Unless she’s nearing 40 plus to 50, then it’s simple sociology–the kind that created our nightmare world.

    Good luck to the apprentice.

  11. Tom Thumb on 05/31/2007 at 3:06 am

    Hello. Is there anyone there?

  12. Tom Thumb on 05/31/2007 at 3:09 am

    Hello.
    Just me again.
    Guess there’s still no one around. :-)

    Seems there hasn’t been anyone here for about a week now.

    Will check back again soon.

    Gl how you getting on with that dude you spoke about? Any success stories yet?

  13. Greenlander on 05/31/2007 at 5:29 am

    rw_man, where are the pictures of Siberian girls? We want new pictures of Siberian girls!!! :)

  14. Luke Skywalker on 05/31/2007 at 5:44 am

    Ok I’ve been busy, but I’m back to GL’s blog.

  15. Canuck on 05/31/2007 at 11:36 am

    Aw, yes, my posts? Well?

  16. rw_man on 06/01/2007 at 2:24 am

    Hi Greenlander and all you guys out there as well. :)

    Still busy as heck.. But I’m going to be having some exciting news pretty soon here that you guys are gonna love. Mums the word for now.

    But untill then here is a new replacement photo of one of my lady friends here.

    http://russianwomentruth.com/images/photos-9/

    Cheers! GL

  17. rw_man on 06/01/2007 at 2:26 am

    Canuck,

    Many of the posts from folks including yourself get thrown into an overly protective spam filter and then I need to go fish it out. This was the case with your last post.. but it’s up now.. Sorry for the lag time on that but I get big time spam thrown at this site and there are hundreds of them to go through at any given time.

  18. wolverine on 06/01/2007 at 3:14 am

    Hey GL, maybe you would tell us about Russian wedding customs. My translator friend Anne told me about hers, and I would like to hear about the games played there.

  19. Canuck on 06/01/2007 at 11:58 am

    I really dislike spam. My condolences.

    Mum’s the word is an interesting choice of words for a Blog. I bet it has something to do with love and Russian girls. Just a wild guess.

    I hope they both chose well.

  20. Greenlander on 06/01/2007 at 5:26 pm

    #1 on that link is quite cute, although I don’t compeletely go for colored hair. If you’ve got brown hair, grow it and flaunt it!

    #3 is definitely the hottie out of that bunch. I’ll give her the benefit of the doubt and assume that she’s studying French so that she can tell French people what pansies they are, and that there hasn’t been a Frenchman worth his salt since Napoleon.

    It wouldn’t be flattering to her if I assumed that she was studying French because she considered it an important world language or that she admired French culture. That would just mean she didn’t have a good grasp on reality. :)

  21. rw_man on 06/02/2007 at 5:30 am

    Wolverine,

    I’m not a complete expert on this but in general the wedding customs revolve around a man having to “prove” his love for his new bride by going through a series of contests.

    If you can imagine a fairytale prince having to fight his way through evil witches and dragons to rescue his princess you wouldn’t be too far from the truth from a classic story line point of view. :)

    GL

  22. wolverine on 06/02/2007 at 3:59 pm

    GL, I wasn’t asking for specifics from an expert. Just observations from wedding that you have attended are fine. Russian weddings sound like a lot of fun.

  23. wonderlander on 06/06/2007 at 2:53 pm

    Dear fellows!

    May I pin my own absence apologies here.

    For those who haven’t yet experienced the twisted pleasure of knowing Natalia, here’s the page with the links to all posts that go about my East-West Smart Dating project:

    http://russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com/policy-complaints-suggestions/

    And to all knights of this Round Table (long live Galactic King!)), my call is addressed.

    I NEED YOU TO HELP ME HELP YOU!

    Now it’s time to get ANSWERS to
    EVERYTHING that you wanted to know about a WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS…

    …or the ONE WHO SEEMS so promising to be your bride…

    BUT FEARED TO ASK.

    These very days we are programming a most exhaustive No-BS Compatibility Questionnaire to facilitate the matchmaking proces, filled with clarity, yet relieved of awkward feelings.

    We take into account most minor and delicate details of all personal characteristics for every future member of our service. From life goals to daily habits. Not even shying away from bedroom preferences…

    No stone unturned. In her family background. In her past relationships. In her individual superstitions and prejudices. In her financial situation and views. In her dependencies. In her manner of social behavior. In her health.

    In everything that can help you get along, or undermine a relationship.

    You have a chance to influence this process and HAVE YOUR OWN SPECIFIC WORRIES ATTENDED TO.

    How? Suggest me the questions we should ask the ladies.

    We’ll incorporate them into a neat friendly merciless digital form for two-way use.

    And then we’ll follow with serious professional tests as well as LEGAL GUARANTEES.

    Remember that some kindest badasses of USA + Ukraine + Russia are prepared to INTERROGATE YOU WITH SAME ZEAL on behalf of our sweet protegees!

    Ask now, so that not to pay Mr & Mrs Matchmakers for individual intermediation…

    Sincerely,
    Comrade Natalia.

    My email pops up when you move the cursor over the link “email” on the page I’ve quoted.

  24. Hero on 06/06/2007 at 11:03 pm

    Natalie, I had problems with your email but here’s what I wish you’d ask:

    1. Do you have any tattoos or body piercings? Do you plan to get any in the future?

    2. Are you talkative or do you appreciate a companionable silence?

    3. Are you willing to stay home with the children until they enter school?

    4. Do you believe a woman has a right to an abortion?

    5. Do you attend church regularly? How often?

    I’ll probably think of some more later. Thanks Comrade!

  25. Canuck on 06/07/2007 at 12:30 am

    “4. Do you believe a woman has a right to an abortion?”, Hero,

    Yes, a very big question. And I too struggled with it. For a long time. Until I learned about the plight of orphans and neglected children in Russia. It is not so black and white. And I know that the notion of abortion applied to women who are well-known for their maternal skills seems quite contradictory.

    Rape, abandonment, and a life dependent on an alcoholic make this very thorny issue even more complex. Many, many Soviet girls have had at least one abortion. Some several. And if this matters very much to you; then, perhaps a country like the Philipines or Portugal may be a better match.

    I am only guessing. But I deduce that you do not support abortion. In which case I ask you to take the sword out of the hand of your girl–whoever she may be. Learn sexual Taoism. Within this sexual system there is information which can give you complete control over conception.

    There can be no conception without your sperm.

    It requires months to learn to use the sperm retention techniques to expert level. So, it is far from instant.

    My point is rather than continuing more upset over this issue, that you would be personally much further ahead if you allowed conception when you knew without a doubt that “she” is your girl.

    As far as the girl’s history on the topic… It depends how old she is. The older, the more likely that she has.

    Perhaps I should make a bumper sticker which says:

    “End Abortion. Retain your Taoist sperm.”

    #5. From my own sources, church is visited during special times of the year and when the person feels troubled and needing specific help.

    #3. If there are no material crises; then, it is very likely “yes” to this question for the vast majority. Unless, of course, she is planning on leaving and needs to establish material independence from the guy she’s leaving. A good sign is the “demanding” that she has her own car—or else. Much easier to get around with a child.

    Please, if I can offer a general comment…

    We are separated by a great cultural divide. And how they are is not “Americans, Canadians, or German Western girls who just happen to live in a country called Russia.” And that very different world has a huge influence on how they are as girls.

    Almost immediately when I learned about the real Russia and real Russian girls, I wanted the rest of my life there. It’s a big world. And your girl can be from there, or perhaps even another feminine culture.

    My brother is the happiest ever in his life. And she is Asian. Who knew? I would never have guessed it when we lived together.

    I hope you find your true love, Hero.

  26. wonderlander on 06/07/2007 at 9:49 am

    As you go, Gentlemen!

    Very sensitive questions and very insightful corrections. Each of these factors requires an expatiated acquaintance with its circumstantials. Which we would ensure.

    Find a most ardent Russian female opponent of abortion and hint at bans… But first provide yourself with a fat medical insurance policy.

  27. wonderlander on 06/07/2007 at 10:02 am

    Hex, this spam filter again. Probably it reacted to my advice of getting insured before touching on women’s rights. Uttering any limits on them is a sure way to make a most conservative Russian woman a most misandric feminist.

    To have rights and to use them is different. (I have a right to make a tattoo. But why in the world shall I inchangeably alter my self-beautiful skin?)

    As you go, Gentlemen! (Ok, now exposing myself to mail spambots: one_eco_sun yahoo.)

    Very sensitive questions and very insightful cultural corrections. All these factors require an expatiated acquaintance with all circumstantials. Which we shall certainly provide.

    Thankful, N.

  28. Canuck on 06/07/2007 at 4:57 pm

    Natalia… To the list:

    What is your religion or spiritual belief system and do you live your belief system or simply enjoy the festive dinners and gatherings?

    Is your purpose to find love or an exit to a particular country or city?

    Are you capable of telling a man that you love him when you do not? If not, describe why not.

    How many children do you want when there are no material barriers and there is love?

    Do you believe in home birthing, breastfeeding and being a full-time mother and lifelong “career of motherhood”?

    Describe “your” perfect day(Can include any fantasy kind of day whatsoever.) with your man, from waking to sleeping, and including what part sex plays(when, how often and how long) in your perfect day.

    Descibe how important fidelity is to love in your life and how often you have lied about having others when in an ostensibly monogamous relationship and under what circumstances. For example, he did so you did, or he humiliated you publically so you humiliated him privately.

    Do you believe that Western men are naive and stupid in personal relationships?

    Describe your ideal Western man: physically and in his character, lifestyle and what kind of love and support you desire from him.

    Do you believe that Western men are desperate because they search for Soviet girls instead of accepting a local feminist?

    Are you seeking a life where you can live as a feminist?

    Are you comfortable being entirely materially dependent on your man?

    Some of my own questions when I found “her”. Still with her. Really good answers.

  29. Greenlander on 06/07/2007 at 6:06 pm

    Canuck, those are great questions.

  30. wolverine on 06/07/2007 at 6:42 pm

    Perhaps some of those questions should have the option of password protection, so some people would feel mose comfortable filling them out.
    Then the person could give the password to the people the he/she like, without having the worry about every perv looking at them.

  31. Canuck on 06/07/2007 at 8:06 pm

    Greenlander … Thank you sincerely.

    Wolverine … EXCELLENT suggestion. Yes.
    It’s very personal and should only be shared when it’s understood that there can be a serious relationship. You’re absolutely right. This kind of info is not for “outsiders”. Excellent.

  32. wonderlander on 06/13/2007 at 9:26 pm

    Exactly ))
    Guys, you’re so productive! )
    With appreciation, N.

  33. Hero on 06/14/2007 at 10:11 pm

    Thanks Natalia. By the way, did you get my email?

  34. Manoah on 06/15/2007 at 2:09 am

    Privet Natasha,

    Hope I am not too late with these:

    How do you spend your free time?

    Would you describe to me your childhood?

    In school, which subjects interest you the most / the least?

    Please tell me more about your family?

    What do you value most in life?

    How do you see your future?

    Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

    What features do you like and dislike about a man?

    Do you have any bad habits? Do you like to eat healthy?

    Do you believe that men and women are created equal?

    How do you understand love? For what reasons would you choose to love one person over another?

    How do you give love and how do you wish to be loved?

    Have you ever been in love or been in a relationship? Have you learned from it? If so, what have your learned about it in general and what have you learned about yourself? What you liked and what you disliked?

    Can you describe your personality? Are you a calm person, or emotional? Outgoing or shy? Lark or Owl? Are you critical?

    Do you enjoy cooking? Cleaning and keeping the house clean, warm and cozy

    Some say that love and relations take work. Can you describe factors that contribute to its success or demise?

    Do you view man woman relations in the tradition sense, where woman is mother and takes care of the home and man is breadwinner, or more modern where both have careers and man is expected to help in household chores?

    When are you most happy / sad?

    What are your hobbies? Taste in music? Do you like classical music?

    What sports do you play? Do you know badminton?

    In sex, do you prefer tenderness, soft caresses, slow titillating motion or a whirlwind, rough, biting, scratching, pushing and pulling?

    In psychology, with respect to your man, do you see yourself dominant or submissive?

    In matters of money, do you see it important to save or to spend it because life is short and we must enjoy the moment?

    What kind of life style would you like to live, modest or luxurious? Or is it more important for you to be simply be with the right and compatible person and material aspects are of little concern?

    If you were to suddenly wake up one day with a million dollars, how would you spend it?

    Describe please your ideal romantic relationship with your man?

    Do you enjoy or eschew discussing deeply intellectual topics like philosophy, religion, politics, mathematics, physics, astronomy, etc..?

    Tell me your values?

    -M

  35. Tom Thumb on 06/18/2007 at 10:21 pm

    Wolverine,

    I see you were asking GL to talk about wedding traditions.

    My understanding from my friend Elena is as follows:

    In Russia the wedding typically involves 2 days celebration, usually Saturday and Sunday.

    First day the bride and groom go to a city hall for some official actions. Before this the
    groom has to “buy” the bride. He gives money to her parents on each step of stairs before her door. Sometimes it can be difficult to do this
    because there are a lot of skyscrapes in Russia. :-)

    After visiting city hall (presumably to register the marriage), they go for a walk in a place where they live. All the guests drink champagne and have their photographs taken. And only after all this does the wedding party begin. During all the celebrations, while the guests eat and drink, somebody will ‘steal’ the bride’s shoe. The groom has find it and drink champagne from it.

    On the second day the bride prepairs pancakes and sells them to all the guests. The groom can carry the bride’s mother and throw her into the water somewhere, (presumably she will be a reasonable lift for the groom). As people say after this, the newly-weds will be happy.

    I understand that many games and activities take place. I assume that this is all dependent upon the couple themselves and the other guests desire to join in. Naturally if the couple is relatively young (ie. 20′s and early 30′s then the activities will be a bit more lively and energetic than perhaps if the couple (not to mention the guests) are in their late 40′s – 50′s.

    I am also told that it is considered very rude as a guest not to get drunk and eat enormous amounts of food. In fact, at Russian weddings, the drunker the better really. Quite different to America and Western Europe where getting drunk to the stage of embarressment would be a major faux pas.

    Hope this helps,

    Tom Thumb

  36. wonderlander on 06/25/2007 at 7:22 pm

    Manoah – I’m glad to see our reference points address same matters of interest )

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