Hey GL,
I thought of something while tending bar the other night. American girls, I’ve noticed, have grown more and more “okay” with making out with other girls (and other forms of intimacy)… I see it all the time in bars, clubs, and on TV! Why do you think this is, and is it prevalent among females in Russia? Seems like just one more of the un-lady like qualities of american women… They are all warped! Interested to hear your thoughts.
Rock & Roll,
WK
Hi Will,
Yes.. This IS an interesting subject.. And actually it’s quite a deep one too. We won’t be talking about Russian Women with this post so much but it’s still important to better understand what Feminism has done to our Culture in the US and Western Countries. Because once we do this we can really appreciate what Russian women offer us that much more.
So accordingly I’ll need to break this up into a few parts in order to give you the real deal. Cause as always what you see on the surface reveals much about our society and the part we choose to play in it..
So please bear with me as we start with this..
Sex has a few different forms of expression..
Procreation, Love, Affection, Entertainment, Thrills, Addiction and…
POWER..
So saying this.. Let me ask you 2 Questions..
ONE
- When was the last time YOU felt like you wanted to act out your sexuality in a public place filled with people?
Now if your a semi-normal person the answer is probably NEVER.
(Yes I know there are people who get physically turned on in doing this in public but I’m not referring to them cause that’s more related to an exhibitionistic “thrill” then anything else. )
If you’re like most people you NATURALLY go to a quiet and PRIVATE place to be intimate with your partner.
I’m certain that no one taught you this because it is clearly something that you already knew from waayy back.
So WHY is this so OBVIOUS and INSTINCTIVE for us?
Because having sex in complete privacy allows you to focus solely on each other.
And more importantly this privacy is needed to build TRUST between the two of you.
Because being Naked with someone in both the flesh and in spirit is a PROFOUND moment of vulnerability and acceptance.
And keep in mind what I said in a previous post..
You CANNOT have LOVE without Vulnerability.
So can you see why most people clearly require privacy and quiet intimacy to do this?
In any case let’s contrast this with your two pseudo-lesbian bar chicks giving each other tongue in public..
Obviously these Girls AREN’T expressing their true love for each other with this public “Act”.
Instead it’s painfully clear that they are trying to cover-up some major personal insecurities by force feeding a freak show to the public.. and by the way.. where do you think the slang term “Freak” came from?
If this weren’t BAD Enough.. wait till what comes next..
In a SAD attempt to pass themselves off as “Sexy”, “Socially Conscious”, “Rebels with a Cause” or any other “badge of honor” they can think of..
(i.e.. “Hey everybody! Look at me i’m sooo special…”)
They will try to PULL A FAST ONE by re-labeling this personal manifestation of emotional insecurity and Self-Righteously FLAUNT IT as “Freedom of Expression” or “Open Sexuality”.
Can you say..
“It’s getting a little deep in here..?”
TWO
- WHO do you REALLY think these girls are doing this for?
- Themselves?
- Or to Attract Attention from other Men..
This is really NO Different from the insecure kid you knew in school who was ALWAYS trying to show off and to be a crowd pleaser.. He thinks he’s being cool but every kid who sees him is laughing at him and is truly embarrassed at how much of a SORRY ASS he’s making out of himself.
It’s PAINFULLY Obvious that his insecurities are SO DEEP that he’s desperate for attention.. ANY Attention.. So when the audience cheers him on for providing “cheap entertainment” he gets reinforced into believing.. “Wow maybe I’m cool!” when in reality they only want to see JUST HOW FAR he’s willing to go to be EVEN MORE of an ASS…
Now it’s the same deal with these 2 chicks except for one little itty-bitty tiny twist…
Substitute the word “Ass” with “Whore”.
And this is where it ties into the Sex and Power deal I mentioned above..
You see on some level girls who openly promote themselves as sluts do have some level of Sexual “Power”..
BUT
As they say.. This is gonna be a real SHORT ride honey..
Or in other words..
WHAM, BAM, Thank You Mam..
You see when a woman markets herself as a whore the only real value she’s really advertising to a man is to be a short term sperm receptacle..
Boy that’s REAL Power eh?
Any Hooker understands that this is the oldest game in the book. Because Hookers do everything they can to flaunt their “sexiness” and then hold back the actual sex as long as possible so that they can watch lonely Men turn into circus animals and jump through rings of fire. This just allows a Hooker to maximize her price for some fast doggie style action and a blowjob.
However, the only difference between a Hooker and the Feminist Women that surround you is the level of honesty..
Because a Prostitute is FAR more honest about her offerings and I can respect that ANY DAY of the week over a Feminist who tries to make her living off of FALSE ADVERTISING.
It’s really no different if I tease my cat by holding a piece of meat just beyond his reach as he tries to jump over and over again to reach it.
This is an insightful analogy because the next time women complain that Men ONLY treat them like a PIECE OF MEAT.. watch how she acts and I’m certain you’ll understand why.
So back to the chicks making out in the bar..
Take a second to imagine this..
Picture a bunch of those “free food sample” stands at your local Wal-Mart.
Got it..?
Ok now imagine that instead of a normal Wal-Mart you are actually in a Wall-Mart from HELL.
You have a bunch of food sample ladies who are all competing for attention from a captive audience.
Two of these ladies at the same booth decide to lock lips in an OBVIOUS attempt to attract attention to THEMSELVES and to advertise their “Daily Special” of some nasty looking pieces of chopped liver served in dixie cups with toothpicks..
Now any normal Guy like you and me doesn’t need to get too close to know that this chopped liver SMELLS REAL BAD…
AND WE SURE AS HELL KNOW that it doesn’t taste very good… So you politely smile.. hold up your hand and say.. “No thanks.”
But because your in HELL..
(and keep in mind hopefully you are only there for a short visit.)
These food sample ladies shamelessly urge you to reconsider because they ACTUALLY BELIEVE that they are offering prepared slices of tender Filet Minion on elegant china and silverware to you.
AND they ALSO ACTUALLY BELIEVE that once you “taste” it you will just grab that frozen package sitting next to them and head straight for the check-out counter.
Now the reason they believe this is because unfortunately there are a bunch of hungry and homeless looking Guys who are condemned to live in HELL and are forced to wander around with no money going from one food sample lady to the next hoping to feed themselves this way.
And when this happens the food sample ladies bitterly bitch..
“Why are THESE guys here?”
AND
“Why aren’t we getting quality guys who would be willing to actually pay for what we have?”
Deep down inside these girls probably aren’t too happy to be there.. Unfortunately this type of “attention” that they get is enough to make them believe their own illusion.
The illusion that their “food” is actually something that they “KNOW” ALL MEN must have.
And Unfortunately because of this..
These girls truly BELIEVE that they have “Power”
BUT to add insult to injury in the often cruel comedy of life..
This “Power” is probably the only form of emotional reinforcement they’ve ever “taken notice of”..
And this causes them to push themselves deeper and deeper into a very nasty trap…
Until one day… this sad little bubble pops and they wake up to find that they have squandered the best years of their life away and have no rosy future to look forward too.
And when this happens..
They start throwing the chopped liver at you..
So predictable.. and so sad..
Put enough of these women together and you will see why they never snap out of it or wake up because of their unwillingness to look at something called..
R E A L I T Y
But heck at the very least.. Now you guys understand what eating in Hell is like..
And I personally think that you might be ready for an authentic home cooked meal by now.
And if you make it to Russia I’m sure you will find out what that’s all about.
Oh and by the way.. You won’t find Good Russian Girls doing these kinds of things in public and thankfully they are clearly in the majority over here.
(click here for part 2)
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Outstanding post! Thanks GL! … and once again it makes perfect sense.
And as for eating in HEAVEN~
It’s true gents… I had the pleasure of eating some home cooked borsch the other night. Wow! And of course we had cookies and chai for dessert.
Yum, I like borsch too……:-)My father made it all the time.
Taras
I would label women like that as performers of the naked crowd mentality. Where their highest virtue is to be some kind of minor celebrity by make yourself a public spectacle. It is not just a by product of feminism, but living in a media saturated environment. Why do you see the deluge of reality tv shows all over the world?
Recently, I read an article in a UK paper about how a woman’s life was made terrible when she and her then husband decided to have their divorce process televised on some reality show. It was a horrible experience to have a very private and vulnerable moment of your life televised to the whole world??? Not to mention the couple had two small boys who became part of the show.
As cliche the statement is, but I swear Marshall McLuhan is spinning in his grave.
You hit the nail on the head with this post (again!), rather then spend their best years improving themselves by becoming educated, cultured, spritually and emotionally developed todays empowered american woman hangs out in bars doing pseudo-lesbian acts in some desperate act for attention – any attention. Pathetic.
You may get to it in part 2, but I’ll tip your hand GL – you will NEVER see this sort of behavior in a Russian woman outside of a bad whore house (and I am only guessing here, I have not actually been to a house of ill repute in Russia).
Russian women I know (and I am now engaged to one and know quite a few) would find this behavior first confusing – they probably could not imagine this until they saw it, and then even more disgusted then we are!
Russian women have real strength and a sense of right and wrong. You have to see it, and you have to tune out what western media, movies, tv etc. portray about women from the FSU. Their portryal is simply false.
I honestly believe the world would be a much better place without network TV. I haven’t watched TV for any extended time in 3 years and it’s amazing what you can discover about te world and yourself if you are allowed the space to ask question and seek answers.
Hopefully with the internet.. The dinosaur of network TV will finally die and people can be free to seek their own truths..
GL
I agree there is a HUGE difference between the behavior of Western and Russian (Eastern European) women.
The first time I met my fiancee, she was 19 and I was 27***. During her year in the USA, she was invited to a college party by some of her male classmates. At first she was really hesitant. She would only go if she could bring a friend. Well, the male students were disappointed when they opened the door and saw me with her, instead of some gorgeous dorm room mate. The look on their faces was priceless.
I will remember this party for the rest of my life, because it gave me the first up close comparison of a 19 year old Russian woman and 19 year old American women. The American girls were getting drunker and more promiscuous with any guy near them. While Maria was completely composed, polite and sociable. Of course the local girls were jealous of Maria getting all the attention. Making the ‘mail order bride’ comments under their breath. Or the comment that she found her ‘sugar daddy’ with me. At the party, she wanted me to be her ‘boyfriend’, so the single guys would not hit on her. They still did and she witnessed how I would handle the situations. Most cases, I was diplomatic and had to get physical with one who wouldn’t take no for an answer.
Before the party, we agreed to an escape plan when it would eventually turn into a drunken orgy. So we left after an hour and half and went to all night diner for coffee and apple pie. I let her talk most of the night and her impressions of the freak show. I was aware of the differences by living in Russia for 2 years, but seeing it up close and personal was a real eye opener.
*** For those who are not familar with my history. I lived in Russia for 2 years. Maria was a distant relative of the family I lived with in Moscow. Her family chose a university where I lived nearby so they would feel safe for their daughter.
Hi Joe,
Great Story.. Make sure you keep posting more of it too.
You know the sad thing that I’ve realized in all of this is that deep down inside all of these people who are behaving in wildly promiscuous ways are all really looking for love and acceptance.
But our toxic culture now sells them the idea that in order to get this they have to be play the sex for power game.
This is really no different from giving someone who is sick and in need of medicine a shot of heroin instead.
Sure it makes them feel better for a short time but it damns them to a physical, emotional and spiritual hell that they only wish to get deeper into.
It’s the ultimate trap in life.
And unfortunately it turns victims into monsters.
This is sadly what I see surrounding us especially with the younger generation of kids and adults.
The only thing you can do is to strengthen your own family bonds of love and hope that it serves as a beacon and an example for those who wish to have the same.
Hey GL I was wondering if sex before marriage is common in the FSU?
Hi Julian,
It totally depends on the the Girl. But overall yes it’s common.
The range from chastity to promiscuity widely varies here like it does any where else.
In some cases you will have girls that won’t have sex unless they are engaged or in a serious relationship.
We also have promiscuous girls here as well but in general it is smaller as a general percentage then what is in the States.
And because it is Russia there are some interesting Caveats.
Again there is much to this topic so I will probably create a new post some time in the near future on it.
Cheers
GL
Galactic Love:
It gets worse than girls making out with each other in a bar. I was riding up in a crowded elevator just now tonight (a major party night), and two girls (probably drunk) in the middle of the crowded elevator started making out with each other, and the men were saying “Wow, this is hot.” And it was obvious that the reason that they were doing it was, like you said, to flaunt a “public act” in order to get attention.
Galactic Love, the way that these people act is insanity. Every time I see something like this, it makes me more and more want to move to Siberia. Clearly from what you have said, this sort of stuff must be much less common in Siberia. I do not want to put up with these people anymore GL. I am going to move to Siberia and marry a traditional woman from Siberia, I’m not kidding.
-Luke Skywalker
Well, speaking for myself, I only watch a few shows per week. And the list is very short.
House
Mythbusters
Everybody Hates Chris
The War At Home
Rome
NCIS
I plan on watching this season of America’s Next Top Model because of the Russian Girl in it. I want to see how she acts differently than the other American femhags on it. I hope she doesn’t become one of them.
Addictions
Addictions
Hmmm…
Many analogies to made with your story GL and the annual parades. Rampant public nudity and partial to full sexual acts. All under police “protection”. Wuss, powerless municipal level politicians getting in on the parades… smiling, waving, bantering “among the parade of charades”.
The audience, the unthinking lapdog sidewalk audience, all looking on as if this is now the “norm”. Well, it must be if the politicians have sanctioned it and the police are protecting it, right?
So, let’s get with it and enjoy the spectacle of spectacle.
For heaven’s sake they even bring their kids to watch as the freaks in varying degrees of degradation parade by.
Stunning. Absolutely stunning.
Now how many amoung us have done what we thought was our best to pick a nice private spot in our autos, only to have some cops shine their lights into this suddenly embarassed and surprised auto?
Yes, funny in a sort of a way. But don’t miss my point.
These same cops are ready to arrest two hetero’s who are doing in psuedo-privacy what the homo’s are doing in full regalia of a parade. And they haven’t actually done forms of making out?
Tell it to your momma.
And this my fellow men is the whole point of the parades. To show the powerlessness of Real men and girls in the Western world.
At this point how is this challenge of public perceptions of decency stopped as some within the MRM contend will eventually happen?
In the East block of countries this “public” battle occurs yearly now as the West tries to export their special brand of social contempt to them.
Simply do a search for the stories and you’ll see Real men beating those who try to rub their noses in a public humiliation.
In the West, the Metrosexual throngs of Wusses bring their actual flesh and blood children “to watch” like it’s the Christmas parade or something.
Stunnning. Absolutely stunningly grotesque. And I speak about the entire lack of public battling by the males.
When I was in Toronto they used horses against us. Then, the political protest became equally fruitless. Well, fruitless in a five fruits and vegetables sort of a way.
In other words, this process of dividing and conquering is not an accident and it goes straight(another double entente) to the top.
Which is why this social battle is not simply social. It is entirely contrived and very, very public. And the brainchild of the Freemason/Illumati philosophy and agenda.
And yes, it is a real philosophy. And this becomes extremely clear when the question of “how in the world did my country and social values ‘suddenly’ become usurped”?
There is a reason for everything bigger than the roles of these public puppets.
And due to much lower level of public or mass trust of such phenomona, the East will be a much more difficult, if not entirely impossible nut to crack.
They are not strangers to the bigger picture and entirley understand that what they see is not a simple parade of lunatics seeking a wider public approval. They see that their very longstanding world and country is being challenged in a social war from within.
Not by guns and bombs. But by humiliation and legislation which shows to men that we cannot even protect our most fundamental and sacred of institutions. Our families.
I have mentioned a few times to not overlook such social signs in our now sacred Eastern and Eurasian societies.
There is a war a brewing. And the aftermath must be defeat in one way or the other. There will be wide sweeping social changes when this bastion would fall.
Which is why I am entirely delighted by the pictures of resistance.
It is not about rights. It is about power, humiliation, the usurping and destruction of traditional values and it is about you, you and you and what you all hold as sacred in your personal lives and dreams.
Because I may well become soon enough a public figure, my outspokeness in this battle and my presence on the scene can cause some possible problems with my Western potential customers, or client base.
In fact, there will probably be huge shock and dismay when a man whose career is as mine not only doesn’t support it but openly battles against it. And for this I will be also openly denigrated and attacked regardless as to how diplomatic my protest is.
I will certainly be labelled a “…phobe”. My response will be pre-emptive and prepared.
But in all wars, there is a cost to pay. However, to simply sit by idly and cross one’s collective fingers is too naive even for Shirley Temple.
Get your heads out of the sand or be prepared to have a group of non-hetero’s stick yours into one.
God bless and protect my Russia.
All it takes for evil to prevail is for good men to stand by and do nothing.
Exactly Wolverine. Unfortunately, many people are so bamboozled and dumbed down, they have a difficult time even recognizing evil when it’s staring them in the face.
Taras