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Russian Women and the Hollywood Myth

10/22/2006

By rw_man

Someone should make a Movie about these Women here.

It just really dawned on me the other day that someone REALLY needs to do this..

I was having a conversation with one of the girls in Photos 9.

She was totally in love with the idea of someday realizing her dream of visiting Hollywood to see all of the “Glamorous Women”.

Once I told her that I’ve spent some time in Hollywood.. Her face flushed and her eyes just grew totally wide as she gasped…

“YOU DID?.. AND WHAT WAS IT LIKE?”

Well at that moment..

I really hated to shatter her happy and beautiful illusion of what her celluloid paradise was like.. but what else could I say?

I just looked at her and sighed..

“My Dear, Russian Women are FAR more NATURALLY Glamorous and Beautiful then the Women in Hollywood..”

Talk about throwing some poor girl for a loop into an alternate dimension of time and space…

On one hand she didn’t want to believe it and was obviously let down.. But once her eyes finished casting downwards to evaluate what I way saying.. she caught the full meaning of it and a gleaming smile emerged as she said..

“REALLY?!”

“Really.. ” I replied..

“But how can that be.. I see so many BEAUTIFUL Women in American Movies all the time!!”

I sighed again.. but this time with a smile as I looked into her luminous eyes..

“Yes I also see them in movies too.. but not in real life like I do with girls like you..”

She still had a hard time fully accepting this as I tried to give her more “proof”..

Ultimately the only proof she will really accept is for her to one day realize her dream and to go to Hollywood herself.

I know that the REAL TRUTH of what she will see over there may not be what she expected.. but I think it will be a far more satisfying experience as it fills up her gas tank with more quiet pride.

Now any number of Russian Ladies asking me if I’ve been to Hollywood is a VERY common question. But after this last incident it really got me thinking.. It made me remember that I too once experienced a radical mental “Paradigm Shift” once I first started to learn about Russian Women.

So lets dive into this a little..

Growing up in America (and especially for myself coming from California)..

The Hollywood and Madison Ave Propaganda Machine led us Men to believe that “winning” the “beautiful” American Girl Next Door was the “Ultimate” prize for your hard work.

There was a Marsha or Jan Brady just waiting for all of us around the next corner.. and all we had to do was to make some green, have a nice home, and be a good guy just like their swell dad Jim Brady was… But of course far removed from this happy illusion were the persistent rumors of the Brady girls becoming porn actresses along with “Jim Brady” ultimately coming out of the closet due to his passing from AIDS.

But even with these nasty and growing bits of news.. Many of us Men still stubbornly held onto a belief that we were sold as kids as we asked the question..

“Where ARE you Brady Girls?”

So we searched harder and harder until finally we had to bring out an electron microscope to look for any residual trace characteristics of these “good girls” within the “Women” that surrounded us. And too often even if we found a “false positive” on something that was actually LONG Gone WE STILL declared victory and pursued a relationship when we should have been running like hell instead..

We were the “bad scientists” that ignored the evidence and twisted the results to fit our rose-colored view of the world.

Now the Hollywood puppet masters knew that our search could not last forever..

They knew that ultimately most of us would grow tired and disillusioned with a fruitless quest for a beautiful “good girl” that didn’t exist or just simply wasn’t accessible..

So in their cunning mastery of mass manipulation and greed they decided to give us another “offering” instead..

They simply setup different production houses in the neighboring towns of Canoga Park and Woodland Hills and created the world’s greatest Porn Empire.. A human powered machine with horse collars attached to sexually and substance abused women who pull it forward while running over and squashing the ones that fall..

Hollywood Glamour indeed…

A 14 billion dollar a year machine that urges you to drop any idea of finding the good girl and fuels your lust for the bad ones instead..

And even though we Men are truly surrounded by many “bad girls” who would love to play this role..

It is STILL nothing but an illusion..

And a MOST self-destructive illusion at that..

So we patted ourselves on the back and fooled ourselves about how cool we were as the “studly bachelors” who disengaged from the idea of a real woman in our lives and instead engaged with the sluts as we graduated into accepting emotional forms of Crack Cocaine as our “nourishment”.

And the only reason we may have traveled down that path in the first place.. was because deep down inside there was no food to be found on our tables while we were already starving.. so if we couldn’t feed ourselves then maybe we could just kill the pangs of hunger instead..

So at this Moment..

As I sit in this regular Russian Restaurant eating a great and delicious meal.. surrounded by “Regular” Russian Women with whom I am eternally grateful to for helping me to see the REAL TRUTH..

I now have nothing but deep contempt for any “traditional” Hollywood and media inspired lines of propaganda about “relationships” that any one of us may have totally bought into over the years.

Wasted years..

I mean how much spiritual or emotional nourishment can some Hollywood, MTV or Porn Star mannequin provide you with?

Or how much nourishment can you get from a women that actually WANTS TO BE like these Jenna Jameson or Madonna-esque “role models”?

And therein lies the crux of the problem.

Because we have several generations of REAL Men trying to build REAL Lives based on NOTHING but an Illusion…

And the gravity of this realization just floors me..

It floors me because the first thing that comes to my mind is the dark and sobering tale of “Brave New World” by Aldous Huxley.

Because in this dystopian world there is a slave race called the Epsilons who were biologically engineered to serve the ruling class of people known as the Alphas. The Epsilons were drugged with addictive “happy pills” called “Soma” and they are brainwashed since birth into believing that they are the true masters of their world when in fact they labor away their lives and their freedom for the benefit of their real masters.

Starting to see the chilling parallels?

You see guys.. The greatest form of Slavery is the one you can never see.. It’s the one where you happily work your asses off or blindly fork your money over believing in some great reward for yourself down the line..i.e. beautiful and loving woman.. when in fact when your train pulls into your hometown.. there’s no lady like this waiting for you… Instead you are only greeted by the thugs and scavengers who want a piece of you because they smell money and their next meal ticket.

Clearly someone or “something” benefits from this “Game”..

And unfortunately it sure as hell ain’t us..

So somehow or another the Real Truth on all of this really needs to get out..

But in the meantime..

I think it’s time to show Hollywood and the world what REAL Beauty and Glamour is truly all about..

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15 Responses to Russian Women and the Hollywood Myth

Taras on 10/22/2006 at 3:04 pm

Once again, beautifully well stated points RW_Man. Like the Ukrainian poet and nationalist Taras Shevshenko, you prove the pen is indeed mightier than the sword. It’s too bad everything you’ve said is true, because I see the same thing in Hollyweird, the porn business and how most people here really are living in dream world. I know those so-called porn actresses are even more a shell of a woman than the ones I see all over the place here. You wouldn’t be surprised how many of them commit suicide or contract AIDS. They are just much further along in the path of self-destruction than the ones who drink, smoke, get tats, and act like the town bicycle. I feel like we’re in a real life situation not unlike that in the movie, “The Matrix,” and I’ve pulled the damn plug on it. That is why I no longer bother with American women, because I know it’s as pointless as bailing inrushing water aboard Titanic with teaspoons. Kudos to you to saving an impressionable young Russian woman from a one-way journey to perdition. You’ve done her an enourmous favor.

Taras

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Joe on 10/22/2006 at 4:58 pm

Excellent comparison with Huxley’s Brave New World.

It reminded a story about a psychologist during World War II, who couldn’t understand how Germany could commit all those atrocities with its history and cultural acheivements. So he went to Germany in 1946 and interviewed average Germans who were not members of the Nazi party for 3 years. After interviewing thousands of German citizens…he came up with one simple conclusion: “They (the Germans) saw themselves as being ‘free’ under the 12 years of Hitler’s reign. What police state? I never saw a concentration camp or knew anyone sent to one.”

I live by a simple Latin phrase: Mundus Vult Decipi. It means the world wishes to be decieved. How many examples can we think of that validates that simple expression?

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rw_man on 10/22/2006 at 5:23 pm

Thanks Taras and Joe..

Your examples are all too relevant and I wish Men didn’t need to take a trip to Russia for them to have this realization.

But then again..

I should be happy..

cause all it usually takes to see the truth is a little trip to Russia.. And in the big scheme of things.. that’s a pretty easy and inexpensive thing to do for a man in comparison with the lifelong reward he will receive with such a new insight.

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DLS on 10/22/2006 at 5:39 pm

RW_Man,

Thanks for your comments on Hollyweird being illusion. I’ve been asked in the past if I thought this or that acress was attractive. My resonse is that I didn’t know as I was only seeing the product, not the real person. I’ve only been to Moscow a couple of times. The first time I was floored by the sheer number of ‘typical’ beautiful Russian women walking around, thought maybe I’d stumbled into a beauty convention. Second time I was there I saw as many or more beautiful women going about their daily buisiness. In the USA they would have been considered ‘dressed to the nines’, in Moscow, they were ‘just’ in their ‘everyday clothes’. Granted, not all were ‘pretty’ but the proportion of pretty to not-so-pretty was easily an order of magnatude greater than in the USA, and even the not-so-pretty were still dressed very nice. I also noticed they didn’t have the ‘attitude’ that seems typical of American females. If I smiled at or complemented a random Russian women I usually got a smile and/or thank you in return, not the threat of harassment charges I would expect here in the ‘Land of the Free’. Thanks for your blog.

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Joe on 10/22/2006 at 8:51 pm

I recommend a site that exposes the Celebrity Industrial Complex. If you need a good laugh visit: http://www.thesuperficial.com

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Taras on 10/23/2006 at 1:29 am

Was that a crab Mrs. Hudson just stepped on? Or a jelly fish, which are all over the place down there at certain times of year. From the pained look on her face, it suggests she stepped on a big one, LOL. I have to say, if I saw her on the beach, I might have mistaken her for yet another local yokel.

Taras

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rw_man on 10/23/2006 at 3:09 am

Hi DLS,

I had a similar experience when I first arrived in Moscow as well.. Couldn’t believe how beautiful the waitresses were at the various restaurants I went to. Had a hard time thinking about the food..

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Byrdeye on 10/23/2006 at 6:50 pm

You’re absolutely right. Someone should make a movie or a sitcom about a decent, hard-working American man who gets screwed over by a rabid American wildebeast and then finds TRUE respect/compatibility in the arms of a beautiful young cultured Russian/Euro import.

Hey, it sure worked for Donald Trump & Tiger Woods!

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Taras on 10/24/2006 at 1:48 pm

It’s make American women foam at the mouth if such a movie or TV sitcom ever saw the light of day. But given the way American women in general all too often behave, it’d be a Kodak moment, LOL.

Taras

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Edison's Medicine on 10/24/2006 at 2:23 pm

Thoughts and personal experience in HOLLYWOOD.
THOUGHTS on RUSSIA…
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Having gone to high school and college just outside of Hollywood, I have spent some time in the city.

After finishing school, I graduated first in my class at the National Institute of Communications in North Hollywood.

At Cal Arts(the west coast juilliard) I went to school with Paul Ruebens (peeweeHerman) David Hasselhoff
Loraine Nuemann, from Saturday night live. Chris Lemon, Jack Lemons son, and Cory Carson the son of Johnny Carson, as well as others.

All of these people put their pants on the same as us. Nice people too. But, quite talented and interesting!

The city of Hollywood is full of tourists and street people, mostly street people. So the glamour is gone for me.

I hope to have an office there in 2007 however, because it is cheaper than Valencia, California which was my long time former home.

I do have to say…Hollywood is Hollywood and there is no other place on earth like it. It certainly is an interesting place, if you include the history of the city

I guess you really have to experience it for yourself. Hollywood, is not like the movies. Movies are the movies. Hollywood is Hollywood. But Hollywood MAKES the movies.
Hollywood is a SCENE man.

An interesting thought in this discussion is that I graduated from Williams S. Hart High School, which was named after one of California’s first, well known, albeit, silent film stars. I spent a lot of time in my early years with my dog in Hart park.

While in high school at HART, in Los Angeles County many of my friends parents worked for big TV shows, like Little House on the Prarie. Big shows called for BIG CREWS to back them up. Another one of my friends fathers worked on the famous Smothers Brothers Show.

When I would go to a local theatre in the San Fernando valley people stayed to watch the credits and it was
considered impolite to leave the movie theatre until the credits had run their full course. I always figured many watching that movie either knew someone that worked on the film, or they themselves had some connection to that particular movie.

I guess you would call this occurance egocentrism, meaning that for every individual group of people, no
matter where they be, there is a different set of norms mores and values.

Much the same concept where RUSSIAN women are RUSSIAN women and adhere more to family values.

To really know Hollywood, is to live in Hollywood or near there, as I did while attending High School and College.

It is also interesting to note that while in high school, I had the ultimate blonde beautiful dream of a girl for
my girlfriend. I’ve often wondered why I didn’t stay with such a beautiful young woman. I remember my parents and hers were putting pressure on us for an early marriage. But I soon began to live fast and fly high, almost as if us Southern California boys were programmed to do so.

I guess we were all programmed by TV and the movies then. We had too many choices. We were deluged
with images of what life should be. The woman I had in high school was a TEN! But no, I knew there was something better. We both lost our innocence together just before the senior prom.

Also, our parents knew we had become ACTIVE and that’s why they were pushing for the marriage.

So I am a person who had every mans dream handed to him on a silver platter, but passed it by because of
a fast life and a “Hollywood Dream”

In my case, I got my chance. I was only 19 when I had my own ALBUM ORIENTED ROCK RADIO SHOW.

Now who really gets that? At 20 I got limo rides to screenings in Hollywood. I remember seeing America’s Hot Wax at a private screening. What an experience! A private Hollywood screening.

The movie was about Alan Freed the guy that coined the phrase Rock N Roll. Little did I know then,
that my mentor would be Mr Freeds former manager Lew Platt. I just recently found a Radio Show Aircheck of me talking about this in the year 1987. I have been playing it in my car and reliving the old days.

A cut on our soon to be released album “unleashed” called “Ballin” talks about Hollywood. My partner
Moe has produced a lot of big names like TLC and Madonna , Celine Dion, Mariah Carey and a lot of other well known artists. Kenny (baby face) Edmunds and Tracy Edmunds recently came out to Ohio to see Moe
and meet me. However, nobody knew exactly when they were coming. I got the call after midnight and was suppose to meet everyone at a local upscale Hotel. I was at home with my girlfriend and her mother watching a DVD.

I hadn’t seen Lisa my girlfriend or her mother for weeks. It was a real cosy evening.

I wasn’t dressed for the occassion anyway…I said., Naw… I’ll make it next time. I could tell my business partner was pissed, but OK with it. Later he told me Kenny would barely even speak to him and that it was an awkward night.

I’m glad I missed it. Although the people of Hollywood may have heard me a time or two on the Radio, I wasn’t really a part of that scene. Moe told me he had a lousy time and they were pissed I didn’t show up.

That night was really the last night I spent much time with my girlfriend as she has a career, owns 12 upscale houses and runs her fathers business as well. Today I actually talked to her for more than five minutes on the phone.

America is a fast paced place and we all think we should be like the people on TV and in the Movies.

Even your average Joe secretly strives for that.

I strive for the days in which I was happy climbing the ladder to where I am now. Working at the smaller stations and hoping someday to move up. I made many friends and we were all close at those little stations.

Those days are gone as the big corporations have taken over the Radio Industry.

I had the perfect girl, but let her slip away.

I climbed to the top and got my “dream job”

But I miss the companionship of all the people I worked with to get to the top.

I really miss those day…did I tell you that?

I don’t miss these days at all.

I spend a lot of time with my dog and we’ve been out walkin…

And lately I think about some of the things I forgot to do.

Like let my heart be true…

I don’t do that much talkin…these days

But, I do a lot of THINKING about RUSSIA!

Good thing I know the RW_man…

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rw_man on 10/24/2006 at 5:19 pm

Hi Jim,

I’m honored everytime you and others write such soulful and often funny misives on this blog.. Please know this with great sincerity.. Quite the colorful and classic fast living So Cal story you have there. I’m glad it’s taken you to a few places but made you realize that where you really want to be is home..

You really hit the nail on the head with the understanding of how we are all supposed to live up to the hollywood dream when it’s all just a story and a commercial product. Yet even when we know this the “pull” of those expectations has such a powerful gravity that it’s very hard to mentally pull away from it and focus on what the real and highest priorities in life are.

I think I recognized this a few years back and that realization has led me here. Either I was a complete madman or smarter then the average bear for doing this.. Actually I think it’s a little of both.. but in a positive way that has just really given me and those that surround me tremendous affirmation on what they know in their hearts to be true..

Again that is why I’m honored by your comments sir..

Keep on dreaming my friend..

Your almost here..

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WK on 10/24/2006 at 5:36 pm

Yeah…

It’s all good EE. Russia has one there – an angel sent down from Heaven just for you…

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T. on 03/13/2008 at 3:41 pm

I am not sure how many can relate to what I am about to tell but here it goes.
I have lived both sides of the fence in terms of realizing what one is “supposed to do” and what one wants to do. I did start the rat race just like anyone else. And it was all about the titles, and the degrees and all that. People tell you that if you dont have a degree your a nobody. In all honesty, what does a degree bring you other than the opportunity for a better job? It does not buy an ounce of love, a pint of respect, a foot of admiration, a keg of passion, a grain of emotional stability and the list goes on and on.
One day I realized that the rat race would not bring nourishment to my soul. All the money in the world means nothing if you dont have someone to share it with. Then again if you have someone to share it with you dont really need it.
Im not saying by any means to not get a degree or not to work. I am a very hard worker myself. What I am saying is to always have your values, priorities and dreams well established so that you can move towards them in a concious way and not away from them in an unconcious way.
How many people do we see who want the storybook life of a wife, kids, yellow dog and white picket fence. How many of these same men are up to their hilt in debt because they ended up buying a BMW they did nto have the money for in order to get it because they were lead to belive that the BMW brings “that” life like a magnet.
My message is this: Be concious of your values your priorities and your dreams and do something about it.

T.

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rw_man on 03/14/2008 at 3:55 am

Bravo T..

Bravo.. Bravo.. Bravo…

I certainly don’t need to add anything more to what you just said..

Cheers mate.. GL

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