In case you haven’t figured it out I am a big believer in Free and Open Markets when it comes to building your future or finding love.
No matter what people tell you about their “opinion” the REAL TRUTH behind their motives always comes down to how they vote with either their money or their feet.
We know that a growing number of Men are willing to “think outside of the box” and to actually vote with our hearts and airline tickets when it comes to voicing our truth as to what type of woman would be the best to build a future with.
However is the reverse true for American and Western Women?
The answer to this lies in seeing just how much of our “Popular Culture” is filled with male bashing messages which crudely implies that the general population of Men are worthless and dumb. However if this were TRULY the case.. then why isn’t there an exodus of these women to other countries to find “better men”?
Or in other words.. How many American or Western women do you see getting married to foreigners?
Now keep in mind this also applies to other Western Countries as well. If Australian Women bitch about Australian Men then how many of these women would be willing to actually put their money where their mouth is and try to find a “better husband” abroad? I’m willing to bet VERY few. So few in fact that it’s essentially non-existent as a trend.
So if you sit back and ponder this.. You might be thinking to yourself..
“Wow this is a pretty twisted mentality we are dealing with here..”
So we have a large proportion of Women who BLATANTLY look down upon the Men that are part of their daily lives.. Yet they WOULDN’T DARE to take any steps themselves to find “better” options outside of their own environment or country.
So does this remind you of anything?
On a humorous level it reminds me of a Tom and Jerry cartoon.
You see no matter how much Tom WANTS to destroy or devour Jerry.. Tom actually NEEDS Jerry to keep on kicking around or else he would suddenly finds his life to be meaningless and empty.
This may be great comedy to watch on the Cartoon Channel but on a darker level we are dealing with a massive case of a sick Co-Dependency within our society.
The feminist within our midst WANTS to do everything they can to put down and blame Men “for their problems” while at the same time THEY NEED US to sit there and to cower to their perceived “dominance”. Tragically it’s often the only way these women can feel emotionally “empowered”.
Now the really sad thing about this whole deal is that there is a significant population of Men who were raised in this environment and led to believe that this should be the normal state of affairs between Men and Women. Unfortunately these Men become willing participants and victims themselves who are in reality equally responsible for the relationship chaos that exists today…
Regrettably.. Not fighting back and allowing this attitude to spread into the lives of other Men is the other half of this sick Co-Dependency..
And By God Gentlemen..
You, Me, and every other Man we know should do our part to wake poor Guys like this up from this very bad dream..
But let’s get back to our Ultimate Acid Test shall we?
The next time you are dealing with a woman who comes up with some off handed slant or cut down about Men.. DO NOT let it slide.. Instead just simply ask her the following questions.
“If you don’t like the Men in this country so much.. why aren’t you going somewhere else to try to find a better one?”
“Also.. do you have some type of sick need to verbally abuse men while NEEDING them to take it from you because your life is so empty?”
Or in the immortal words of one of my friends..
“Hey Lady.. put up or shut up…”
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There are no “better men” in other countries. We western men are the most egalitarian, the most considerate of women in the world. Women have no other options and deep down they know it.
We men still hold the power even now, it is just that many of us have been brainwashed by feminism, our masculinity demonized to the point that women think they have the power. Most to be quite frank, do not have the emotional control to handle this and collectively become completely unreasonable, blind to the detrimental effects of this demonization.
WHY? Because women generally find it difficult to separate logic from emotion. They are emotionally and sexually driven to strong, powerful, masculine men, yet we are are not respected by women or society, in any society, if we do not exhibit these traits. If women understood this, they would see is a lose/lose position for all.
Of course most do not and western men must take back the reins and stop submitting to emotively driven women. We must assertively break through the barrier of feminism aftermath and take back what is biologically ours. We must see the feminist retoric for what it is and again find the masculinity that built our modern civilisation….because modern civilisation will eventually crumble if we do not.
We need to find a good woman to support us, one who understands her biological and emotional need for a healthy, self-assured masculine man……
It’s funny what Western Women actually know to be true.. but would rather die then to openly admit it. Nothing like a little EGO to warp your reality and sense of identity.. Or lack of it..
Keep on trucking..
GL
Men are men everywhere. We are areally simple creatures at heart. It doesn’t take much to make us happy. Give me a loving and supportive woman, time to watch sports and hang out with the guys and some good home cookin’ and I will tear down mountains and rebuild the New Orleans dikes by myself if I have to. I will wash the dishes, mow the lawns and build a greenhouse at the same time if that’s what my wife needs.
American (Western) women are the most spoiled and the most priviledged in the world and they owe that to technology and …. MEN! Take away all the technology that make life easier for them and it’ll be living in the 1800′s. Us (true) men? Give me a rifle and a couple of good dogs and we’ll adapt and we will STILL provide for our families but I will miss my football.
So let us true men save all our money and plan to search the world for a true woman. And let the feminists wallow in cat poop, resign themselves to a miserable existence with a feminized man or go through life as a single dried up shell of a woman taking care of atrocius kids without a true father figure.
I’m not sure why I’m even bothering posting this…
I agree that many women have gone too far in their statements and anti-men viewpoints. But perhaps if men would put their pride aside for a few minutes and actually consider what happens that causes so many women to feel this way…perhaps we might actually be able to get something accomplished.
“We must assertively break through the barrier of feminism aftermath and take back what is biologically ours.”
What pray tell is “biologically yours”? The right to a woman who you can beat, rape, etc. without having to worry about being arrested?
I have a very strong man in my life (and yes, he knows about my blog and feelings of the general male population). He has never made me feel as if I have to somehow give up my own power just to let him be a man, which is what I feel when I read statements such as this.
Blessings.
I was just reading one of your posts above and noticed this:
“Now keep in mind this also applies to other Western Countries as well. If Australian Women bitch about Australian Men then how many of these women would be willing to actually put their money where their mouth is and try to find a “better husband” abroad? I’m willing to bet VERY few. So few in fact that it’s essentially non-existent as a trend.”
Actually although I understand where you’re trying to go with this statement, it’s a little two dimensional. I come from that corner of the world, and in truth many Australian (also applies for New Zealand and South African) women between 20 – 30 are often doing what we all do, being relatively far from the multi-cultural closeness of Europe, we go on a Overseas Experience (known simply as our “OE”). For some of us it’s only 2 years while others lik emyself are still working and travelling around the world. I have been based in London UK for 10 years now, having originally intended to come here for 6 months. While I have been here, I have never had a partner from my home country or or neighbouring countries. I’ve not intended it to happen this. However many like myself while doing their OE frequently meet partners from other places in the world – not for the reasons you have specified in your statement, but simply because we travel almost at a cultural level, so it will happen naturally regardless. During my 10 years here I have had partners from Spain, France, Luxembourg, England, Estonia, Brasil and USA (actually I lived there for a year prior to coming to London).
In summary, perhaps it’s just because meeting partners from other countries happens naturally at large for us that there is no apparent significant exodus from our homeland. That doesn’t mean to say it isn’t there by subtle and natural methods!
LS
“What pray tell is “biologically yours”? The right to a woman who you can beat, rape, etc. without having to worry about being arrested? ”
Ask your husband. If he is as strong of a man as you say he is, he will know. It’s apparent that you do not know because of your un-intelligent comments. If he’s a true man, he will take offense at your brain-dead cooments. If he gives an answer to appease you, then congratulations, you have p-whipped him to submission.
Think about it “non-feministically” (if there is such a word) or at least make the effort to really understand what this “mens movement” is all about. Why do you resort to violent references ? Is that what you really think about males in general ? If you’re already happy then good for you. Now go away and leave us alone.
Breatheinspirit, would you mind telling me which of the posts here have advocated the beating and raping of women? I seem to have missed those, though I could swear that I read all of them.
“Think about it “non-feministically” (if there is such a word) or at least make the effort to really understand what this “mens movement” is all about. Why do you resort to violent references ? Is that what you really think about males in general ? If you’re already happy then good for you. Now go away and leave us alone.”
Why do you ignore the violent references? That, my friend, is the real question.
Blessings.
“Breatheinspirit, would you mind telling me which of the posts here have advocated the beating and raping of women? I seem to have missed those, though I could swear that I read all of them.”
Hero,
The issue of biological male dominance, is that it tends to give men something of a license to abuse, rape, force us into an inferior position, etc…and then act as if they’ve done nothing wrong when we try to defend ourselves.
I’ve no issue with men who prefer to be dominant and women who prefer to be submissive, just so long as there is no actual abuse. The problem is that there is a very fine line between the two; Few men seem capable of navigating that fine line.
The louder someone has to scream that they are “real men”…the less I tend to believe it to be so. “Real men” have enough confidence in themselves to not feel the need to lash out when women try to gain an equal footing in this crazy world in which we currently find ourselves.
Blessings.
Breatheinspirt,
“What pray tell is “biologically yours”? The right to a woman who you can beat, rape, etc. without having to worry about being arrested? ”
It is obvious that you are using the shaming language to twist the facts. Have you ever study nature and biology? Also, do you see any posts here by men that advocate violence and rape??
Please take your time to find facts before making false claims. As a matter of facts, I DON’T advocate any raping and beating of women, ever! Men here are in the same boat.
“He has never made me feel as if I have to somehow give up my own power just to let him be a man..”
This statement is very obvious to us that you are playing the power game with your husband. So much for being an “independent and strong” woman, do you perceive your husband to be a threat to your independence??
This “power game” relationship is not healthy. It does not do any good for marriage and family. That would lead to a life of misery for both of husband and wife.
Just observe the nature, men are wired to be go getters and taking charge to make things happen. Women are “nuturers” by nature.. taking care of husband, kids, family and making sure house are run properly.
This kind of attitude by western women is the main reason why we reject Western women, and moving on to seek good women overseas. Men here don’t tolerate any of this behavior. If any women poses this behavior, we would be very happy to kick them to the curb and move on.
“This statement is very obvious to us that you are playing the power game with your husband. So much for being an “independent and strong” woman, do you perceive your husband to be a threat to your independence?? ”
Right, very obvious. He’s clearly a terrible threat to my independence and strength and I clearly have no idea of that which I speak.
“This kind of attitude by western women is the main reason why we reject Western women, and moving on to seek good women overseas. Men here don’t tolerate any of this behavior. If any women poses this behavior, we would be very happy to kick them to the curb and move on. ”
Okey dokey, have fun!!! Be sure to post pics so I can see your lovely, new lady.
Blessings.
Breatheinspirit,
There is no one here who believes in the ‘subjugation’ of women. Many men who are here though are angry at the entitlement attitude that many women display. Many men are also angry that society lets them get away with it. There are literally hundreds of women advocacy centers and research organizations that address the problems that women face in this country. However, no one is doing the same for men and instead, most people decide to blame men and bash them. Personally, I believe that all men are “real men”, but I also believe that a man who answers honestly about women and society is also someone who still very deep down, believes in them and the potential they have. We are currently having a debate on marriage and masculinity, and this shows that absolutely no one knows what the definition is! A marriage is supposed to be about cooperation and teamwork, not about conflict.
I don’t have to list all of the hate statements and slanderous remarks that female supremacists have made over the past thirty years with no one denouncing them. I also don’t have to list all of the topics that society needs to address in regard to men. They are out there and if a person who is honest with themself knows acknowledges they are out there also.
And that is the general underlying theme of why men are angry. The people who can affect change know about this but have more important things to address than the truth. That’s all i’m going to say. If you want to know more, there are books out there who address the topic in a non-ideological manner.
-LL
-LL
Breatheinspirit,
Since you’re against violence, you must be opposed to the killing of unborn babies. Or is that just part of your “reproductive rights”?
breatheinspirit,
Nowhere on this board does any member advocate violence against women. So where are these posts ? As for ignoring these violent references, how could anyone ignore them? Are you ignoring the fact that there has been a preponderance of female teacher-student sexual abuse? Female perversion against young males. How about female violence against their own children? Have you forgotten Andrea Yates, Susan Smith and a bevy of others? Why are there more and more women being perverse these days?
You are secure now because you have a husband. Let’s see you handle yourself in the dating world should he ever wake up and see what kind of a hell he’s gotten himself into. Let’s see how you handle being alone after you’ve taken everything he has in your future divorce. When it does, we’ll still be here and then he will finally see what a cancer you and your kind are.
Real men have the intelligence to debate you and point out your fallacies. Real men will never harm a female unless there is a significant threat of danger then all bets are off. It’s the “Fight versus flight” response that is basic in all of us. Real men will walk away from you and your kind to find a better woman and leave you to your “strong” man. Real men do not abuse women. The one you are referring to are losers, bad boys, convicts and psychotics. None are on this board. It’s clear you haven’t met a real man. Why? Because we’re all avoiding you and your kind.
When QuietRebel posts his new wife, you can bet she will be a lady and a true woman. It doesn’t matter whether or not she is Russian but I’m sure as hell she won’t be from the US or any feminist-friendly country. Yes, and I am sure that he and others on this board will have the time of their lives. I know that I did.
I have finally figured out why women like to put words into our mouth. It’s because women don’t actually think with logic, they “think” (Feel) with emotions. So if they get mad, they can’t put a factual reason why they’re mad, and they end up just making something up. . .
breathing point is gay bastard.
He supports the feminazi cause.
I and many other men tried to understand American women. However we got nothing out of it. Instead all we learned through other sources is that American women suffer from personality disorders.
They are highly anti-social and physically ugly.
I dont even say “hi” to American women anymore because the last time that happened I nearly got in huge trouble. Even if they happen to say hi I do not respond.
However when it comes to Czech, Russian, or South American, I always say hi and will get a response.
American womn are not women but men. Any man that likes American women or support the feminazi cause is gay.
“You are secure now because you have a husband. Let’s see you handle yourself in the dating world should he ever wake up and see what kind of a hell he’s gotten himself into. Let’s see how you handle being alone after you’ve taken everything he has in your future divorce. When it does, we’ll still be here and then he will finally see what a cancer you and your kind are.”
Actually, I’m still trying to figure out where I said I was married. Either way, I fail to see the significance of my maritial status.
“Real men will walk away from you and your kind to find a better woman and leave you to your “strong” man. Real men do not abuse women. The one you are referring to are losers, bad boys, convicts and psychotics. None are on this board. It’s clear you haven’t met a real man. Why? Because we’re all avoiding you and your kind.”
Lmao…and you all wonder why you are still single.
Blessings.
“They are highly anti-social and physically ugly.”
Yep, that’s me…couldn’t get a man if I tried. I’d break a camera if someone tried to take a picture.
Blessings.
“So if they get mad, they can’t put a factual reason why they’re mad, and they end up just making something up. . . ”
Yep, no reason for our anger. All men are perfect, little angels. They haven’t been subjecting us to terrible abuse for centuries.
We’re making it all up!!!
Blessings.
to breathinspit
Do you want to debate us or would you rather waste bandwidth responding to our comments like a 6th grader? Let’s hear your reasoning. We gave you ours. Put up or shut up.
By the way, since you’re married, what are you doing trolling around a blog dedicated to the beauty of Russian women? Shouldn’t you be watching Oprah or male-bashing with your friends? Or are you just jealous and angry that so many men are discovering the wonders of women of Russia (and other countries)? Tell you what, introduce your husband to this site. Let him read ALL our comments in ALL of the categories/experiences and let’s see what he says. C’mon. Let’s see what happens.
Notice that she didn’t even answer my question about abortion.
“Lmao…and you all wonder why you are still single.”
I’m single because I choose to be. I’ve had plenty of opportunities to get married, but I don’t feel like being a slave. And I have no problem getting dates either. My biggest problem is getting women to stop pestering me for dates.
I really wish her husband or whatever would read this site in its totality and then get his opinion/comments. I am making it a point to convert men that I meet, married or not, to the mens movement against feminism and towards the wonders of the Russian (or Filipino or South American. Hell, any woman besides a western one) woman. I want men to start opening their eyes and start waking up from this hellish nightmare. If I can convert a few, then it would be all worth it.
“Put up or shut up.”
I’ve got an entire blog dedicated to my reasoning. If you click my name on this comment, you can find your way there if you have not done so already.
Blessings.
“I’ve had plenty of opportunities to get married, but I don’t feel like being a slave.”
Neither do most women.
Blessings.
“Notice that she didn’t even answer my question about abortion.”
I support first trimester abortions, yes. Particularly those in cases of rape or incest. I do not support it throughout the second trimester unless there are very extraordinary circumstances.
Blessings.
So what about introducing your husband to this site? I noticed you avoided that one. Oh, and let us hear his unbiased comments too. I’m sure he wouldn’t want you looking over his shoulder while he types his responses or you having to edit his comments before hitting the “submit comment” button.
Like I wrote previously, let him read ALL the experiences/categories and the comments made after each one and see all the photos of insanely beautiful man-loving and supporting Russian women. I’m assuming of course that he is not a bad-boy, psychotic or convict. We only want fine upstanding men that can contribute intelligently and debate us in a logical manner (unlike you).
Gentlemen….
That’s enough with all of this arguments… Let’s stop this debate with her. She doesn’t get it. Let’s stop this debate. Okay?
Look, It’s so obvious that she is making fools out of herself. Observe that she’s being a two-faced liar. SHe’s trying to cover her butt when making points.
Here’s one proof:
She said, “Actually, I’m still trying to figure out where I said I was married. Either way, I fail to see the significance of my maritial status.”
However, she initially said this.. “I have a very strong man in my life (and yes, he knows about my blog and feelings of the general male population). He has never made me feel as if I have to somehow give up my own power just to let him be a man, which is what I feel when I read statements such as this.” SO, what’s the difference in what breatheninspit says?
That is one example that she is not being consistent with her words. She has no crediblity and doesn’t stand to any scrutiny of questioning from men.
Rw_Man… Can you please clean up all of this big cloud of mess and go back talking about truths on Russian women. She’s wasting the bandwith of this website. Let’s focus on the point of Russian women on this website. Can we please focus on giving good tips and advices for men on travelling to Russia and good Russian girls instead of fighting with those delusional feminists?
There’s no benefit from fighting with those feminists. Just focus on the main audience, that is decent gentlemen wanting to have great Russian ladies. Keep sharing truths about Russia and Russian ladies with western men. Remember that Russian ladies are here to read all of information here.
We want to keep this website high quality and best for everybody. Keep protecting this blog from any of those invaders.
breathinspirt,
HOLY CRAP!! Where in this blog dedicated to the Russian Woman do members even mention the following?
Child Prostitution
Son Preference
Child Pron
Sex Traffiking
Female Gential Mutilations
I have read everything on this blog and I have yet to find a reference to anything remotely associated advocating violence against women, let alone the stuff that you write about. Tell me where any member advocates and promotes violence against women. Don’t try. You can’t.
You keep some pretty sick and perverted company on your site. I guess someone’s gotta do it though. More power to you but you don’t belong on this board. Try “convicts.com”, or “men.who.are.asses.com”. Look down the road to your local penitentiary for your soapbox. Try the halfway house 5 blocks down from your house. Men on this site are fine professional individuals who are active in promoting the decline of feminism and the union with Russian women.
QuietRebel,
You are right. Thank you for setting me straight. It’s just that I was on a roll but arguing with her ilk is like beating my head against a brick wall. Thanks to her, I’ll have to take 2 Advils. Thanks to you, I have my bearings straight.
“I support first trimester abortions, yes. Particularly those in cases of rape or incest.”
Well Breatheinspirit, your credibility just went down the toilet, as far as I’m concerned. You rant and rave about violence against women, yet you have no problem with murdering the most helpless and innocent human beings of all, because they’d be an inconvenience for you. Let me ask you this: If a child got run over in the street, would it be any less tragic if that child had been conceived by rape or incest?
‘ “I’ve had plenty of opportunities to get married, but I don’t feel like being a slave.”
Neither do most women.’
Yes but in modern marriages it’s the MAN who’s the slave!! He has to go out and work 60 hours per week and then come home to a bitching, overweight, frigid wife who greets him at the door with a list of chores! And if he has a problem with that she can just leave and take all his stuff, plus the kids! Why not take a trip to Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan some day so you can see what oppression of women REALLY is?!
“The issue of biological male dominance, is that it tends to give men something of a license to abuse…..I’ve no issue with men who prefer to be dominant and women who prefer to be submissive, just so long as there is no actual abuse. The problem is that there is a very fine line between the two; Few men seem capable of navigating that fine line. “
working in the security industry for many years I can tell you that they is a very very fat line, A line that all men know and learn thoughout there lives growing up, a Line that, if you cross you will end up very very hurt by other men.
I used to see hundreds of guys a night in a club environment, with alchol, drugs, dancing partying etc etc all the ingredients and can tell you that its not the alpha males you have to watch, on the contrary its the omega males, who’ll carry a knife, start a fight, hit a woman etc etc.
Most alpha males are infact gentle giants because they have seen the other side of that line and never want to see it again.
They will stop trouble once its started, they will protect there women and children, but the’ll almost never start trouble.
Look at a pic of every drink spiker they catch, or think of every violent abusive man you know, and you will see the traits of an omega male.
I just have one question. Why bother debating with this troll?
No matter what you type nothing will change its mind. So why bother? Also, who cares?
Notice the method of critique? Empty sloganeering and political talking points? Vague general references on dominance and violence. Then the name calling. Right out of Gender Feminism Activism 101.
The best revenge against these types is living well.
kzarz, I hope you get better. Try not to waste your time debating with any trolls. You don’t need that for yourself. You have much better time to spend on anything else. That includes precious time with your great wife that you admire so much. I hope she can make your spine tingle and stay relaxed and sane from your rough time with this troll. smile!
You are just an inspiration to me. I will have a beautiful Russian girlfriend who, hopefully, will be like your wife in the future. I’m working to make it happen by studying Russian & cultures/history and working to save my money for my trip to Russia and possibly living there.
“The best revenge against these types is living well.”
Exactly.
I really care about great future for myself and my future family. That includes great and wonderful life for myself. When I want to have kids, the best gift I can have for myself and future children especially daughter is a great lady who aspires to be the best wife and mother in the world!
Breathinspirit: >
To be a strong, masculine man….if I was to beat or rape a woman, that status..yes, status….would be gone.
Breathinspirit’s statement is typical female shite digging to evoke a emotional response. She wants to bring us down to her level, then she can feel a sense of power over us….do not give her the satisfaction. These women must be ignored.
hey, this is a bit off topic but would somone name some of the other western cuntries we should avoid?
Hi Aaron.. Don’t really want to focus on the countries you should avoid.. Just the countries you should check out..
Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, Kazakhstan, the Baltics
Eastern European Countries as well.. I’ve heard good things about Poland but that’s about it.. You other guys will have to chip in if you have intel on that.
thanks, much appreciated
I would check out Czech Republic and Croatia. My last vaction outside FSU was to those 2 nations. Croatia was the cheapest and it is on the Adriatic Sea.
Hi Leinad,
Thanks for pointing that out. Hard to get a point across without making generalizations but i’m sure you get the point. There will always be exceptions and I would never intentionally claim that one group of people or the other is ALL this or ALL that.. BUT.. clearly there are general trends and this is what we are trying to illustrate here the best way we can.
Cheers, GL
Hi rw_man,
Yes I understand. It was not my intention to categorise your statement in any limitations, I just thought I could add a little more outlining to it. Please don’t take my first posting as trying to spark any form of disagreement,only trying to add a little more perspective on the original comment.
Joe (re post 41 above): Yes I have been to Czech Republic and Croatia as well as Estonia and the trips have always been really enjoyable just for the trip and experience of visiting these places. I have good friends in both Prague and Tallinn. Very nice people in general!
It seems pointless to react to Breathspirit’s comments. Clearly this person has deep issues and insecurities towards men to somehow have read “rape and beating” somewhere on the site when it doesn’t exist.
I don’t agree that American/Western women are terrible. Actually the majority are good. But I do admit that there are quite a few girls like Breathspirit around who are deeply screwed up american girls.
What’s funny though is that, speaking for my country, alot of US girls think US guys are messed up and US guys think US girls are messed up. Truth is, “Americans in General”, men and women, have some serious issues. Neither gender really admits.
So standing on the opposite of some disgruntled american mama’s boy, I give you Breathspirit- raised and drilled by her man-hating mother. She throws words around out of the blue like “rape”. Misguided girls like Breathspirit give US/western women a bad rap.
I do beleive that most US women initially buy into this feminist hysteria, but when the dust clears, they too want men to take a strong lead in the relationship just like russian women seem to want(never dated a native russian girl yet).
American women make great lovers and girlfriends, but I would never reconsider marrying most American girls. They love weddings but not really marriages. Sorry, but as mush as I love them, they aren’t cut out for a real marriage.
Sadly, Breathspirit’s marriage has the same fate as the Titanic. Her paranoid anti-male mindset will inevitably sink her marriage.
Only an insecure and messed up male would stay with someone like this
shawn
I went along with the mistatement about Breathspirit being married, which I retract.
I’d like to make one observation though. It seems pretty sick for some girl to seek out a mens forum with an agenda to criticise men interested in foreign women. She didnt just stumble onto the site. She had to be looking for this type of site of men looking for russian girls.
Imagine if I seeked out some women’s forum online and found a blog from Breathspirit about how she prefers italian men, and I claimed that she’s tramp to like foreign men and just wants to use them for money. It’s fair to say that this would be creepy for me to do.
So it is equally creepy for her to do the same(equality isn’t always convenient, is it?). Oh, wait, I forgot! It’s shiek and exciting for women to seek out foreign men but men seeking foreign women are perverted and only want to “rape and beat them.”
Talk about double standard.
Wonderful point Shawn.
Furthermore if you went to a woman’s forum and started to criticize them even in a civil way they would probably ban you or complain to your ISP or do any number of things.
BTW Breathspirit has not been banned from this site..
I feel that we Men have a certain amount of culpability in terms of not being able to see the writing on the wall… i.e. we tend to let things go (which is not necessarily a bad thing sometimes) when Women like this make an accusation or rant that is just out there.
The problem is that we have hit a type of critical mass with the number of women doing this and this general perception all of a sudden becomes reality and then the laws get enacted.. etc etc..
Anyways.. nothing like a double standard to get your bile going.. thanks again.. GL
I can’t believe men here are actually responding to trolls. Don’t you know that women’s best argument is a “he said she said” one?
As for me, I love a good fight but I learned that you can’t argue with them without resorting to name-calling and other elementary school techniques. It’s literally beating your head against a wall.
I felt compelled to add to this thread, apologies for prolonging it. There are facts which Breath raises which are accurate but she, like so many, fail to recognize or acknowledge the full picture. Female against male violence is much more prevalent then anyone cares to realize or admit. And, as the following references shows, the judicial system disregards in all but the most extreme cases.
“.. there are a significant minority of cases involving violence by women against men, violence by same-sex partners or where both parties act out violently against one another. Men tend not to report spousal abuse at the same rate as women; partly because they diminish the impact themselves and partly because society, media, police and courts also tend to diminish its impact.
Dr. Martin Fiebert, from the Department of Psychology of California State University, has compiled an annotated bibliograhy of research relating to spousal abuse by women. This bibliography examines 155 scholarly investigations: 126 empirical studies and 29 reviews and/or analyses, which demonstrate that women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men in their relationships with their spouses or male partners. The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 116,000.”
Hello WTFOver,
Welcome aboard!
The one thing your comment really reminded me of was this fact. Abuse doesn’t seem to be the central identity that Men carry with them as opposed to how women carry it. Or in other words.. Anyones life may totally suck in the past with their childhood but at some point you got to get over it and get out of dodge.
Men seem more apt to do this as opposed to Women in my opinion. I think it’s because Men externalize things mentally while Women internalize things much more.
So eventhough many Men may go through bad abuse it’s not something that they typically want to linger on and make a part of their identity as opposed to women who still want to Cry Wolf after the wolf has done his damage and is long gone.
Thanks for your comment.. Please tell your friends about us.. Cheers GL
I looked at your website: BreathInSpirit is carrying an awful lot of baggage. Duh, so men have been shits…ever notice that they spend a lot of time killing each other too? Simple fact is that they cause most of the mayhem on the planet; they also invented most of the art, culture, science, religion, literature, and technology. So get used to the mixed bag. We’ve come along way Baby, we no longer justify or approve violence against women, though is still happens tell me: is it OK in the US? Good lord no, smack your lady and the system is on your ass BIG TIME!
I doubt very much that fundamental male nature has changed much in the last 50,000 years, what has changed is that technology has leveled the playing field so that physical dominance is not of much use anymore. Ever hear of the saying “God made some men big and some men small but Colonel Colt made them all equal”? Us whimpy guys don’t put up with much shit anymore, why do women have such a tough time getting their act together?
My theory is that women bought the line that because it is a man’s world, they have to act like men to succeed. IMHO there is very little that is feminime about feminism, it’s mostly about the masculinization of women. THAT is what we reject, and vote with our feet and our dollars to get away from. I want a FEMININE partner, not a man with tits who turns everything into a contest of wills and is hyper-sensitive to slights and challenges. And doesn’t expect me to be some kind of damn housepet, God geve me a real nice set of balls and I am going to use them as intended!
BreathintheSpirit hits the nail on the head.
Men talking about abortion is stupid, especially when most abortions are a direct result of the man who tells the wife or girlfriend to get one because he doesn’t want any responsibility for kids.
And I grew up watching my mother being beaten on a daily basis. I’ve been married for 21 years, but if my husband ever raised a hand to me I’d leave him in a heartbeat.
Sheesh. I’m outta here. This is a waste of time. You men are so convinced of your own superiority over women, and so hell bent to find a “doormat of your own,” that it’s a waste of time.
What’s worse is that there are millions of women with such low self-esteem (or such an economic need to immigrate) that you’ll find someone. Figures. Men who expect their women to live in purdah or be drowned in swimming pools also manage to find mates.
Stockholm Syndrome and Misogyny is alive and well. . .
Sheesh!
Perhaps brensgrrl could open her mind the the tragic and growing abuse of females in America to men. I suppose she cannot understand such things to make such accusations of men and especially people beyond our borders she knows nothing about.
She sounds very familiar to what I left behind and why I seek someone elsewhere, not abuse, equality. Or is impossible for a controlling and overbearing woman to abuse a man?
Sheesh is right. Poka to you.
Canajun
brensgrrl Says:
November 16th, 2006 at 8:26 am
… most abortions are a direct result of the man who tells the wife or girlfriend to get one because he doesn’t want any responsibility for kids.
I doubt that this is true and if it is, it really tells of the weak nature of these women who does what a man tells her to do. What happened to choice or does that fall by the wayside when it’s so convenient?
Please tell me your legitimate, published and validated sources for this information. I’d like to verify to see if this is actually true or something your hormones are telling you.
Brensgrrl conveniently fails to mention that women are the ones who usually choose to end a pregnancy. They do it because they don’t want to have a particular man’s child, or they just don’t want to be mothers. While there are a few situations where an abortion is medically necessary, most of the time it’s at the woman’s discretion. When abortions are done for the usual reasons, it’s nothing less than state sanctioned infanticide. I personally think the government should get out of the abortion business altoghether because it IS big business unbeknownst to most Americans. That’s right, it is exactly that Brensgrrl, or did your feminist girlfriends tell you that? It’s one part of many that make up the culture of death in this country, and that is one reason why people are leaving this country. A country that worships death cannot by definition last long, and the same goes for the population. Do yourself a favor, don’t cross sword with men like me, or RW-Man who lived long enough and been around the block enough times to know what’s truth, and what’s BS.
Taras
Brensgrrl conveniently fails to mention that women are the ones who usually choose to end a pregnancy. They do it because they don’t want to have a particular man’s child, or they just don’t want to be mothers. While there are a few situations where an abortion is medically necessary, most of the time it’s at the woman’s discretion. When abortions are done for the usual reasons, it’s nothing less than state sanctioned infanticide. I personally think the government should get out of the abortion business altoghether because it IS big business unbeknownst to most Americans. That’s right, it is exactly that Brensgrrl, or did your feminist girlfriends tell you that? It’s one part of many that make up the culture of death in this country, and that is one reason why people are leaving this country. A country that worships death cannot by definition last long, and the same goes for the population. Do yourself a favor, don’t cross swords with men like me, or RW-Man who lived long enough and been around the block enough times to know what’s truth, and what’s BS. Just like a sword fight, either you know how to wield it, or you’ll get run-through, or worse. I’d quit before you look even sillier and more ignorant than you already do.
Taras
I’ll never EVER date another American girl ever again. I’m from New York, and the women here are dispicable people. They are rude, and self centered. All they care about here is what type of car you drive, how much money you bank, and your looks. The woman I’m marrying is peruvian and looks a cross between Penelope Cruz and Selma Hyek. She is a complete knock out. She has none of the above disgusting qualities. She has a heart of gold! Guys, you gotta take care of your woman, but in my experience, non-American women appreciate it more, and recipricate better.
Amen to that, Corssi!
A cross between Penelope and Salma!!! Oh man, don’t tempt me. I just might crash your wedding just to see the look on the skanky AW faces when you stroll down the aisle with your wife.
Congratuations to you and your soon-to-be wife!!
I love your article GL.
So, who exactly is it who is married to the Feminazi’s? Or are they? Oh yeah. My brother. Twice. And I’m sure he’ll keep trying until it kills him dead.
I just listened to a series of radio lectures regarding advertising. Only men are fair game for open derision and belittling. Hee, hee. So funny.
Well, yes, it is funny. But apparently we’re the only ones secure enough to laugh at ourselves without creating a knee jerk protest in the streets due to simply plain funnin’.
It used to be a right of passage among some fathers to bring their virgin sons to a brothel. The better choice today would be Family [read Feminazi] court.
Even more tragically ironic is many aren’t even allowed to visit with them by the time that they can understand the meaning of getting ass-raped in court.
Skip to the ending … Take him to someplace where he can swim in the culture of Traditional Femininity for even a week.
Saving our sons from the Cult of Feminazism, one young man at a time.
When he gets there, he won’t be bumping into any of his local Feminazi’s. Which is germane to your thread GL.
Can’t buy a date anywhere in Shagra La. Not even to save their lives.
Oh well, there’s always whipping dogs in the West and the ever popular strap-ons.
This is a really old post, I know but as a western woman who’s going to marry a foreign man I wanted to comment.
My Japanese fiance is wonderful and I wouldn’t give him up for anything but I also wouldn’t say he is “better” than a western man; he’s just different. A lot of the women I know back home (UK) and western women living in Japan have said things like “Japanese men treat women like slaves” or “Japanese men are effeminate nancy boys, I will ONLY go out with a western man” – but they are never happy with a western boyfriend either, what more do you want?! I don’t know whether it’s true that Japanese men are that bad (seems to be more common with older men and the ones who work the longest hours) but they also don’t seem to experience the same kind of problems that western relationships have. My fiance does NOT treat me as his slave and I think it’s all the more reason to appreciate him.
Some people have commented on this blog that it’s women outside the west who are the “normal” ones, I don’t have the privilege of knowing any Russian girls but the women here are generally much nicer as people. We will be living in Japan after the wedding and I think we’re going to be happier there.
Sophie,
I think the underlying reality is that the values of westerners have dropped so dramatically that few people of character what to end up with a western mate. The traditional roles and values where you are can be very desirable to someone who has seen only neglect, abuse and abandonment. As a middle aged, North American man I can assure you that most western women are less appealing as potential wives than almost any other women on Earth.
Best wishes for your marriage and future.
Richard,
Thank you for your kind wishes. Life has taught me that one should be thankful for a good man (or woman), and I think it sad that western society doesn’t encourage this any more.