Do you remember “Jenny” from the movie Forest Gump?
I thought she was one of the most complex but tortured characters I’ve ever seen on screen. And every time I watch this movie I’m reminded of some of women I’ve known who are equally tortured.
Jenny if you remember came from the small backwater town of Greenbow Alabama where she was sexually abused as a child by her impoverished alcoholic share cropper father. Jenny’s only goal in her young life was shown to us on her little knees in a cornfield as she desperately prayed..
“Dear God.. Please turn me into a bird so I can fly far far away…”
“Dear God.. Please turn me into a bird so I can fly far far away…”
And she did fly away.. In more ways then you could possibly imagine..
Because Jenny flew straight into the arms of insanity..
And it killed her in the end..
The tragedy of Jenny is that she had a severe identity crisis with who she was. Her emotions carried a lethal brew of deep sexual shame, rage and depression that actually caused her to go out and to seek the same type of physical and sexual abuse that she grew up with..
As twisted as this may sound to you or I there is a strange logic to it. You see sexually abused girls often try to re-create the sexual abuse in an attempt to “gain control” over it.
It’s kind of like playing a very tough but extremely addictive Video Game which keeps on kicking your butt but you are determined to “win” at it.. Even though the endless levels in this game make this goal completely impossible.
So she finds herself on a self-destructive treadmill of whoring and rage where on one hand she has a constant impulse to demonstrate how “Sexually Powerful” she is.. but in addition to this she also has an uncontrollable urge to act out her deepest anger against any Man within her reach.
So instead of trying to destroy space aliens with a joy stick clutched in her hand in the living room.
She try’s to destroy a man with his joy stick clutched in her hand in the bedroom..
And then she will often blame the man internally for trying to come on to her or even to rape her.
Because that’s what all sex feels like to her.
Now another KEY thing you need to understand about Sexually abused women is this.
They often have a DEEP HATRED for the very concept of Family.
It’s simply because they never had one..
At least the safe and protected one that they always dreamt about having when they were little girls. So in their perception. A Traditional Happy Family as a loving Wife with Husband and Children simply DOESN’T exist.
IT MUST NOT EXIST..
Because if it does.. then the sense of loss that they would feel would simply throw them over the edge. And they are just barely hanging on right now..
This is not just emotional survival we are talking about but in light of the extremely high suicide rates that these women face it is also an issue of physical survival as well.
So in their mind they truly have no choice but to project scorn, sarcasm and anger towards anyone.. or with any Man who crosses their path..
But most of all.. They have a special place in hell in their hearts for a Man who actually wants a real family.
Because they immediately look upon him as the next potential abusive “daddy”.
They will do everything in their power to shame, to scorn, and to sabotage the lives of these Men..
Because in reality they are only projecting outside.. what’s going on inside.
Many of them justify this inner turmoil by hiding beneath a false shield of “trying to save the world”.. which is more commonly known as Feminism..
They want to become “The Catcher in the Rye”.. desperate adult children who believe that they are trying to save the world.. when in reality they are only desperate to save the little girl within.
Unfortunately for them and for us.. they believe that the only way to do this.. is to do everything they can to marginalized and crush men.
- Because a “man” did this to her..
- And a “man” did this to other girls like her..
- So therefore all “men” are bad..
- Therefore all “men” must be restricted, restrained.. or removed..
So as you may have already guessed..
Feminism provides a PERFECT vehicle for these women to try to re-gain their “self-respect” and “social legitimacy” from the shame they feel of having to carry a very prominent “dirty little secret” inside. And the deepest shame and the biggest secret they keep is that they often actually enjoyed the abuse they went through.. and as you can imagine this just really messes with their head big time.
With the Feminist Movement these women get to do the following..
- Have a “legitimate” vehicle for their self-denial and anger.
- Have a “legitimate” reason to marginalize and destroy the foundations of Family.
- Have a “legitimate” reason to “justify” their sexual and emotionally detached promiscuity.
But most of all..
To have a “legitimate” way to point fingers at a “bad man” so the world can’t possibly see them as “bad women”.
Like any older or middle aged woman who stands in line at the local pharmacy counter waiting for her refill of anti-depressants…
These Women “need” to take their “Feminist medicine” because it’s often the only thing that makes them feel “good” in their lonely existence.. even if they are in a “relationship”.
But in reality… we all know that this “medicine” is just a different grade of heroin that they are shooting..
So how can you as a Man avoid and protect yourself from women like this either in the US or in the world?
Well the number one thing to look for is Emotional Maturity.
For example if a woman was sexually abused as a girl then her “Emotional Age” is frozen from that point on. So if she first had sex at the age of 8.. she will act like an 8 year old for most of her remaining life.
So when you encounter Angry Women either within this site or in public.. the first thing you should do is to listen to her words VERY carefully and to literally close your eyes and ask yourself..
- “How old is this girl?”
- “Is she throwing a temper tantrum?”
- “Is she acting like a school yard bully?”
- “Does she girlishly fantasize about being someone like a movie star?”
- “Does she try to pretend like she’s invisible so no one can see who she really is?”
Because the more angry, illogical or delusional any “woman” acts the “younger” she really is..
You can prove this on your own by going through some of the past comments in this site made by various “angry feminist” and to do this evaluation for yourself. I might actually repost some of the recent very nasty ones so you can see more solid examples of this.
Or I’d highly recommend that you go watch the movie Forest Gump again and notice “how old” Jenny is throughout the entire movie..
Please do this Gentlemen..
And I promise you that you may have saved yourself and your fellow Man from a lifetime in hell.
One Final Note…
I have spoken about some very bitter truths about a given population of women and I know that they will not “enjoy” this and try to make false accusations.
So with this in mind.. I feel it’s still important for us as Men to make clear our intentions… or at least mine..
That we may openly get angry and take various actions against these women.. especially if they try to threaten us, our future, or what we believe in..
This is simply because we Men understand that a child with a loaded gun in their hands is just as dangerous as an adult with one.
But in spite all of this.. deep down inside I do not believe that we Men wish these women any true malice..
Because True Men still have hearts and compassion for those who suffer. And it’s all too painfully obvious when these women lash out or make false accusations against us that their suffering is real and their anger is the only thing they have. I personally respect who they are as people and the challenges they face in their lives so this post in no way is meant to denigrate them.. It’s only meant to inject some badly needed reality and truth no matter how harsh it is.
Unfortunately the only thing we can realistic do as Men is to try to avoid them in general and if necessary to confront them when they try to corner us or when they bear false witness against us or our Brothers.
But in the meantime..
I at least hope that their own road to healing is on a road to real redemption and peace..
Because after all.. I’m sure Jenny may have pissed some of us off with some of the things she did to herself and to Forest..
But Forest still loved her..
And I understand why.
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Very good post, rw_man. As a young man (24 years old), I feel blessed to be able to try and understand these male/female issues now, so that I can know what to look for in a real woman. Unfortunately, I can’t say that I have ever been taught the information on male/female dynamics that you and others present (I tip my hat to Henry Makow @ http://www.savethemales.ca). I believe that if more men actually took the time to think about things like this, instead of being brainwashed by modern culture, that we could save ourselves a lot of pain.
Keep up the good work! I, for one appreciate it deeply.
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Excellent post RW! Honestly, I know exactly what you are talking about because I knew a women who was like this. And unfortunately, these women DO suffer. But, they project that all men are like this, when in reality, only a very small minority of men (and mothers who sexually abuse their children) are like this. As people, we fully understand that this is abhorrent behavior that has no justification. I truly wish for all these people (for both genders) who go through this to be at peace. I really do. Great post RW. Keep up the great work.
-LL
GL,
What you wrote about the mindset of those sexually abused women really got me to think quite a lot about my experiences with a 44 years old mother of my old American girlfriend in Maine several years ago. I really know what you are talking about. You describe it so perfectly!
Honestly, it’s extremely sad to think about my past experiences with that woman. It’s very long story. It’s really long enough to write a 100 page book. If you already saw the movie of “The Fatal Attraction” and “The Graduate”, actions and scenes in those movies are exactly what happened to me when dealing with that 44 years old mother. She was only 44 years old, but she really acted like 5 years old girl with so much of temper tantum.
The woman that I was talking about is just exactly like that psychotic blond woman from the “Fatal Attraction.” Seriously, she was really playing the “cat and mouse” game with me.
Just wanted to share short story about her… When I met her at first, I thought she was quite wonderful and sweet mother taking good care of her kids. I found that we have quite a lot in common, and we share the same philosophy about life – live and let live and simple and independent life in the woods & country. We became really good friends.
Over time of knowing more about her, she started to show her true color and told me honestly about her past life. She told me so many times how similar I am to her father. She told me that I have the same philosophy that her father adhered to. I was flattered to hear about that, but I was not really sure why she told me how I am so much like her father. I am being who I am, not her father.
Over time, she had became so psychotic and almost being so violent with me. She started to play the “cat and mouse” game with me. She kept coming over my place almost every weekend without my permission to stalk and harrass me. If things don’t go in her own way, she would try to threaten me with sex. She constantly put so much of guilt trip on me. She was like trying to anything to “save” me from the harm with my friends. She has gotten out of control just like that woman from the “Fatal Attraction”. In the end, I had to get the police involved and requested a restraining order against her.
I was really saddened by how she turned out to be. Honestly, I really know in my heart that she’s really a good person. I know that she really needs help very badly. The problem is that she is still living in denial. I felt that I wanted to help her, but I can’t. Really, there’s nothing I can do, but cut off my friendship with her for good, and keep my distance from her. I hope she goes through this in peace. It goes the same for all of these people.
My own view is that the biological father
will rarely commit abuse to their own children.
It’s usually always the single
mother’s boyfriend(s.)
Or the child’s stepfather.
The Feminist State tempts woman
to break up real families with money and other benefits. The single mother also supplements
her income with a steady stream of
boyfriend providers. Many of them are badboy types that so many woman are attracted to.
I agree, excellent post.
To me, the real proof that feminism was not in the favor of all women was during the Clinton sex scandal in 1998. All the major icons of modern feminism defended Clinton to the hilt, even after he admitted to the affair with a subordinate. What happened to all the instituted sexual harassment laws???
It was just proof that modern feminist ideology is nothing more than a strain of extreme leftwing ideology for certain kinds of women with serious emotional problems. Nothing more. I am talking about the true believers. Most women in the Western world do not believe in feminism. Just ask any woman if they are a feminist and watch their reactions. It is priceless. They will happily partake the perks from the last 30 years, but they are NOT doctrinaire feminists.
@ Joe:
Feminism in a nutshell = “everything on my terms”.
They might say they don’t believe in feminism. Feminism has become somewhat of a dirty word these days . However, if there’s anything we’ve learned, it’s to ignore what women say in lieu of what they do. The two are rarely in sync with one another.
It is so easy to read a western woman when you look at them as a feminazi. Its great.
Great blog. I think you hit the nail on the head.
I think the absolute *root* cause of this whole mess are the 2% of humans that are clinical psychopaths. Well worth reading a book by Dr. Robert Hare called “Without Conscience”. If we could do something about the psychopath factor we would cure a lot of our ills.
Your latest post rings so true in my experience (50+ years on this earth) that if you didn’t discover yourself you certainly have expressed it in a way that can’t be ignored. I’ve known of this happening even to women who were not sexually abused by their natural fathers (although that does happen) but abused by any male from their early formative years (mother’s boyfriend, stepfather, adulterous lover if the mother is married).
That experience corrodes their view towards men and family forever, even later in life when they find themselves married to a stable caring man and they have the normal family they yearned for but lost as girls. I’ve seen this happen where the woman so affected will even try to (and sometimes succeed) in destroying her own family.
I’ve often wondered how so many women whom one encounters in life have such a corrosive and groundless hatred towards all men and towards the very concept of family. They bitterly resent men they don’t even know, they torment and bedevil the men they do know and they generally go through life like runaway freight trains leaving sorrow and grief in their wakes.
Here in America it is a truism in the family court system that the mother must always be awarded custody of the children in a divorce, regardless of the mother’s fitness or mental health. This leads to cases where the mother will look the other way or even assist in the crime when her new boyfriend or stepfather starts sexually abusing the daughter in the relationship. That some women can allow this to happen to their own flesh and blood is inconscionable to me.
Hi Tamara,
Thank you for your very thoughtful post.
Lot more of this going on then most of would know or be able to normally recognize.
Some of the recent bomb throwing and comments that came our way just raised this red flag in their faces more then they even realize.
It’s very important for them to know.. that I know.. or at least for them to understand that this is the very first thing I look for in them when they start screaming.
There is an crazy amount of distortions and twisting going on out there. The foundation that is established in this site is to promote good men to find good women and visa versa.
How could you fight.. Or how could you WANT to fight something like THAT?
The only real answer comes from knowing that there is a certain percentage of the population that has real contempt for the concept of a stable loving family.. both men and women are guilty of this and I think I fairly call it like it is and tell these people god bless and good luck (with real compassion by the way) but please leave others like us alone..
Please tell your friends about us and thanks again.. GL
BTW Tamara sounds like a Georgian name.. Are you a Georgian or Russian Lady?
If so would love to get more of your feedback.. Cheers..
Joe great point about the deafening silence of the Feminist during the J Brodrick and M Lewenski scandals..
It just reminds me that if you are going to pick a cause to support.. make sure it’s the right one..
GL
Hi Mathew.. good to know you feel blessed.. I wish I understood this at 24 myself..
Anyways go out and make sure other young guys know this too..
Thanks..GL
LL and QuiteRebel,
Thanks for sharing your own experiences as well. The fact that you 2 random guys are touched by this type of event means that the damage is truly out there and is a real hazard to life and health for many..
GL
Inkraven, Brian and Aaron..
Thanks for your comments and for spreading the awareness of being very careful as to what a woman says to you. At some point she will always speak a truth but it’s often hidden in plain sight. Thanks again and please spread the word.
GL
Actually “tamara” was just an available user-id. I didn’t know at the time it was a common Russian name. What a coincidence! As for geography I live in the American South. Thanks for your insightful posts.
“And the deepest shame and the biggest secret they keep is that they often actually enjoyed the abuse they went through.. and as you can imagine this just really messes with their head big time.”
So everybody agrees with this part?
Tamara, you’ve made some excellent points. And Misha made a very good observation about abuse and how it warps people’s sense of reality, guilt and shame. I agree with both of you here, abused children never really get over it. They are dysfuntionals who often become non-functional adults mentally at best, agents of evil and destruction at worst.
Taras
This article really hit home with me. It made me think of myself and growing up with this rage and unhappiness in me. My home was definitely disordered, “dysfunctional” but I have never remembered physical abuse….However, my parents divorced when I was 18 months old and proceeded both of them to imbibe deeply in the profane and decadent culture of the late 60′s and early 70′s. I was raised in a home with my mother who was only in her early 20′s and her best girl friend from high school. To say they were ‘active’ in that culture is an understatement. Lots of men were brought into our home…..And while I don’t remember actually being abused, I developed a deep distrust of men in general and it warped me tremendously.
My parents got back together when I was 7, and we remained an intact family until I was 18. My father had drug problems and my entire life in that home was tinged with my mother’s raging and unhappiness and my father’s escapism by drugs.
My mother was a deeply scared, miserable woman…
Where did all these abused women of the 60′s come from? These women who caused the sexual revolution/feminist revolution to flourish?
We’ve been told it was because of their repressive upbringing…But there had to be something leading up to this.
Remember the culture of the 40′s and 50′s was about Freud and Kinsey and Science as the new god of our culture. Religion and faith were being jettisoned in greater degree as more and more people were turning to the “new enlightenment” of science/medicine/technology…throwing off the old “restraints” of religion and morals.
Something turned the 60′s Feminist’s fathers, brothers, uncles from protector’s into predators.
Remember the 40′s was the Pin Up girl, the 50′s was Playboy….Bikini’s…less modesty, less decorum….No rules, the advent of the “teenager” a new term coined around 1940 I believe.
Even if a girl’s father didn’t abuse her directly, his lack of protection, her increased freedom to be ‘out in the world’ unchaperoned, put her at risk from other males.
Nearly everyone I can think of in my life, my friends and my mother my aunt my sisters in law….have something in their backgrounds, some abuse, neglect…lack of protection………
Lisa
Hello Lisa,
I am deeply grateful and respectful for the personal story you have shared.
In my mind it takes alot of guts to look at your past and your family’s history the way you have done. I know it can’t be easy but you are certainly a better woman for it and all of us as well for your share.
Can’t really add much to what you are saying Lisa since you’ve done it so well already.
There is clearly something wrong with our modern society in the way that “Dysfunctional” is marketed as the Norm..
This is a terrible thing and I can see traces of that here with what Communism has done to the general mentality of Men.
Wisdom is timeless.. along with good and loving families.. I can only hope that we learn our lessons as a society without too much damage.. but I unfortunately hold out little real optimism for that given the current state of affairs.
Glad to have you aboard.. thanks for the great post
GL
Dear Sir:
Your claims strike me as somewhat unsupported. In particular:
For example if a woman was sexually abused as a girl then her “Emotional Age” is frozen from that point on. So if she first had sex at the age of 8.. she will act like an 8 year old for most of her remaining life.
That statement is given without proof, and the final clause makes the entire thing terribly ambiguous. “For most of her remaining life” might mean that she behaves like a child at some times, or in some contexts — it might mean any number of things.
Further I would be interested to see you address the psychology of men who are sexually abused as children.
Hi Rick,
I’m not going to get into the issue of sexually abused men because that is not related to this piece on Feminism.. However because you seem a little offended by this piece and may believe that what I say is unfounded might I recommend some reading material for you. Google up “Secret Survivors” and “Ghosts in the Bedroom”.
Good Luck..
I know many ladies that have been abused as children, and none of them tell me that they liked it. I am not saying it might not be true, I am just curious to know your evidence.
Misha they would never tell you they enjoyed it.. that’s one of the main points of this post. And I never implied that this applies to all survivors of sexual abuse. But what I describe is a huge component of the pain and shame they many of them go through. If you are really that interested in this subject also go check out the movie “Bliss” at Blockbuster..
Thank you for your insight into this matter. I am a nearly 40-year-old woman and I would have to agree with everything you have said. I tried unsuccessfully to “save” one of these women, who eventually turned on the man who was trying to rescue her and then on me and my family — and I do not know how many countless other men she has gone through at this point, playing the helpless victim and then stabbing them in the back.
What a horror for the young men growing up in today’s society! (and our young women) How our values & morals have been totally trashed, and their roles so misrepresented.
My best advice: TURN OFF THE TV!!
REFUSE TO FOLLOW THE “NORM.”
Stop attending church. Pick up your bible instead and spend that time actually READING it for yourself and live by it, LIVE BY THE WORD OF GOD & THE MODEL GIVEN TO US BY HIS SON.
Pray for your children and do whatever you can to protect them in their early years from this type of abuse. God gave us children to protect and nurture. This is our most important job given in life!! No amount of material posessions could ever replace the innocence which is lost. I believe there is no greater harm than the damage done by sexual abuse by a close family member at an early age.
It is sad that in the US, we are misled to believe that material possessions equate happiness, when the fact is that enough will never be enough, and we are putting our children at risk day in and day out on our neverending quest for the “Great American Dream.” Enough is enough TODAY, right now, whatever you have!!
Welcome Meek,
And thank you for your impassioned comment.
I think you pretty much nailed it when you said.
“What a horror for the young men growing up in today’s society! (and our young women) How our values & morals have been totally trashed, and their roles so misrepresented.”
You are absolutely right about this.. it’s a total landmine field of dangerous illusions that exists in our society right now. The only real and timeless shelter that exists is to have a stable loving family. And this is extremely difficult to achieve for Men right now given the fact that huge numbers of the other half.. women.. are falling by the way side and not wanting to prioritize this in their lives. We now have Sex in the City and Madonna role models for them to follow.
This is why I feel so strongly about what I’m doing to try to put a dent in this bucket so to speak..
The dangerous thing that I see is the creation of a vicious cycle for both Men and Women as they pursue very aggressive sexual power games with each other. Both sides will get locked into the belief that this is the only way for them to find what they think is love and intimacy… when in fact it’s only a one way road to hell.
I hate to say this.. but the only thing that the woman you tried to help serves from this point on is to be a reminder of what we are trying to prevent.
We are truly imperiled if we believe this is supposed to be part of the American Dream.. i.e. “the freedom to do as we please” no matter how destructive that may be. Or the constant envy and chase as you mentioned for material rewards as a means for “self-fulfillment”.
Anyways Meek.. I truly appreciate your participation in my site as an American Woman who still understands what that traditionally meant..
I have new pieces of faith in the future when I learn of women like you who are doing your part to educate other women on what real happiness and love is all about..
Please tell your friends and visit us again!
Cheers, GL
Hi,
I’ve read your article with great interest. As a first time visitor I was stunned to read something I my self thought about for a long time.
I have a friend, not a very close friend nowadays, who is a typical role model of the type of women you described. She is a very desperate militant woman, who has no sense for any values. As a child, her parents got divorced and after that her mother started to sleep with any guy who passed her path. Many times, under influence of alcohol, she told the stories of her childhood sexual adventures with the friends of her mother. Now she has got a daughter of her own whose father she knew for only couple of days. There’s no connection between father and daughter and that man is everything but a father. I know there’s no way left for her to achieve emotional maturity. The only thing that I detest so much is that probably her own daughter is going to face the same fate. In this world of “political correctness” and “rule of justice” I can only play the role of a bystander who utters great words of morality and knows his hands are tied, eyes covered and mouth needs to be shut!
Hi raq,
Unfortunately for your friend it would seem like she is playing the same “programming” for her own daughter because this may be the only role she understands and feels comfortable with. That is unfortunately why they call it “the cycle of abuse”. Tragically I see situations like this increasing dramatically and not decreasing in our modern society as we sexualize everything through marketing and media.
Innocence as a value or a virute is not only lost but openly scorned. Truly the only means we have to counter this is to create our own strong and loving families and your participation in this subject is a nice step in the right direction.
Thanks again, GL
I had some friends from U.S. when I was in Germany. When they came to visit me, they were shocked the way I was making jokes with/about women. I always did and got no problems… well, I got more rewards than problems. They told me I could easily get problems with that type of (innocent) jokes, if made to an U.S. woman. After I red many posts of your blog, and only after, I believe them. Well, poor you U.S. men, I understand why you see Russian women like the Promised Land! By the way, even if in Europe, I had the luck to meet and merry a girl from Moscow. So, I partly understand your love for Russian women. The only thing: to fly to Russia to find a woman, well, that sounds a little bit too much desperate. I am sure you can find a good woman “even” in the West
Anyway, the other 3 Italian-Russian couples I know are also really happy. I think there’s something true in your blog. Keep up the good work, and jump on loranablog if you want to see some pictures of our happy life!
Hi Loranablog,
Thanks for joining us and giving us your observations with the 3 happy Italian Russian couples that you have met.
The only issue I have with you is this whole desperation impression that you have towards men who wish to have serious relationships with Russian Ladies.
I’ll be honest with you cause yes there are certainly men who are going to fall in this catagory but I am also sure that the vast majority of us are actually quality guys looking for quality women to build a quality family with.
As far as you thinking that there are good women in the west.. the key issue here is.. yes of course they exist.. but are they accessible?
We can prove this point by seeing how well you would do if you went to the US to look for a serious relationship. You’ve already halfway proven my point by sharing the fact that you have already met a Woman from Moscow who left a lasting positive impression on you so you can understand why I created this blog.
Let’s see if you feel the same way about the women in the US if and when you meet any number of them.
Anyways thanks again for joining us and please tell your friends!
GL
Loranablog, the fact that an American man is willing to travel to Russia to find a quality wife proves that he’s anything but desperate! You see, desperate men have LOWER standards than men who are picky. If a man was in desperate need a car, would he head for the Porsche dealership, or would he buy a $500 lemon? The guy who holds out for the Porsche knows that he deserves the best and that he can get it!
Ciao Hero and ciao rw_man! I didn’t mean with the world “desperate” something bad. Sorry for my English: I meant “extreme”. You’re right: I wouldn’t go to U.S. looking for a serious relationship with a U.S. woman. But, I mean, what happened between me and Anastasia was something spontaneous. It happened. Good. But it DID NOT happen because I was fed up with Western women. Yes, I agree, now I see a certain difference between East and West and I enjoy my condition, because it is the first time I feel to be with somebody that want to build a family with me. What I want to say is: if the situation with U.S. women is so bad, something has to be changed in the society. Otherwise you’ll have your own nice paradise family, but your life will be quite disconnected from what happens around you. Or do you think that your “example” could lead to positive changes in the neighborhoods? Anyway, I find your blog interesting and fair on the subject. That’s why I hope my guests will come to read you.
Hello Loranablog,
Thanks for clearing that up. Falling in Love with a Russian Girl is a pretty easy thing to do and this is something that you are beginning to understand.. so I’m happy for you.
As far as what is to be done with American Society Culturally?
I believe the only real solution is awareness and action.
Awareness of what relationships options exist for American and Western Men in other parts of the world like Russia.
Action with creating a plan and turning your life long dream of finding a beautiful loving wife into a reality.
This is all it really takes to start something great within society.. One man comes home with an incredible wife and soon many other Men will take notice and want to achieve the same level of happiness for themselves as well. Each new Man that achieves this is one less Man who will be held hostage by Feminism and the culture of hate that has festered for the last 30 years.
I’m reminded of what one person can do when they take a stand..
Rosa Parks refuses to give up her seat because she was a black woman.. and because of this the peaceful and highly effective civil rights movement was born.
I feel that Men like us are on the correct side of history with this one. You simply can’t stop what we know to be true and the actions we take because of it. Why would any sane man limit his options towards looking for a relationship in just his own country? The word is getting out and more and more men are unafraid to travel down a path towards real happiness.
Thanks for turning on your readers to us.. Cheers!
GL
Real men have a visceral reaction to post-modern feminism because it is A-FEMINITE: not feminine. Like two north poles on a magnet repelling each other, we are repelled by afeminite women. We seek the feminine elsewhere, and thrive where we find it.
Individual gender roles (for example in Thailand) are quite fluid: some men are women inside, and vice-versa. But this is an individual (and accepted) issue, not a social policy. Socially it is a disaster to make women into men. Women aren’t happy, men aren’t happy, children aren’t happy….why are we doing this if nobody is happy? Do you see many happy feminists?
Check out “Who Stole Feminism” on Amazon. One reviewer also recommended “Professor Alice Von Hildbrand- a philosopher that tackles the ‘why’ of post-modern feminism failings”, he also notes that “the failing of post-modern feminism is that there is a loss of feminine identity.”
We better get the root of the problem guys and quit bitching about the symptoms. Band-aids work, after all you can drink piss if you’re thirsty enough and any feminine woman is better than an afeminite one. But we have a social problem here that threatens to turn the US into a quasi-Fascist country. This is ideologial war, but we have to understand who the enemy is. It is not women it is a false belief system that is the enemy, and we have to fight it.
Agreed JR. But the wheels of the bus go round and round, and these attitudes seem ingrained in all the women and society in general. The only way to stop it is to choose wisely and seek our women elsewhere. The point will get through to the woman in 20 years or so, then society can follow.
Canajun
The stink feminists raised over American men ditching American women for foreign women indicates it is already sinking in. I feel the only way this will stop however will be when large numbers of men here in the U.S. not only marry foriegn wives, they also leave the country for good. Then and only then will feminists even notice the shots fired across their bow. Even then, the message won’t have the intended effect, they have NO interest in changing and that is why American women are and will be for generations to come an exercise in futility. Once men get to be my age, they realize they don’t want to sqaunder their remaining years in a futile situation.
Taras
Nice posts guys.
My take on the whole is is that feminism started by women who were abused as women. Some early 2nd wave feminists were prostitutes who started to hate male sexuality because we could have sex and forget about the days ills. Unlike them, and the fact they will hold grudges about us from months previous, over something we forgot about 20 minutes later.
We also don’t like to cuddle.
Couple that with the fact that men are unchangeable, and women try to change us even though they know they can’t. We can change them, but they can’t change us, they make us miserable, and themselves, trying to get us to be more sensitive, or to get us to cry over something retarded like a flower dying in the middle of the night from frost.
A woman’s world is her home, her family and her children. She could care less what is happening anywhere in the world other than her sphere, her home. Some women pretend that they care about world events, they are just trying to compete with men, and care about what we care about. You could ask 98% of women what who they will vote for, and they will choose the better looking candidate. The vast majority of women could care less about world events. The fact that women got to vote completely shocks me. I don’t think any self respecting gentleman would have voted for women’s suffrage. Unless you like Big Government, A small military, high taxes, and loads of social services, women should have never been allowed to vote. AS they will give up Liberty for Security the vast majority of the time. They operate of fear, feelings, and emotions. Whereas men act, on strength, logic, and reason.
Married women vote like their husbands, so I suppose suffrage wasn’t a problem. But with feminism trying to destroy principles of faith, morals, and the good in mankind, women are increasing less likely to be married, or even vote.
ON to my point. Feminism by attacking marriage has actually increased crime. As 85% of criminals come from broken homes, with an absent biological father to use his strength to set a child straight. Girls of divorce are more likely to divorce, boys are more likely to end up in prison. Studies find girls are more likely to not only abuse drugs and alcohol, but to use sex to gain attention from boys. These same girls are traumatized by boys and their Testosterone highs, and their inability to commit with all these women to sexually plunder.
100 years ago a man had to be married to nail an upstanding woman. Now all he needs is a care, and descent conversation, coupled with a trip to the Cinema.
I am a man of Faith. I hope that doesn’t offend anybody. In parting I would like to mention a piece of scripture that states, “Spare the rod, spoil the child.” In other words if men are not able to properly discipline their children, or are completely taken out of the picture by feminasty laws which make the father a once a month daddy, the problems in society will fester.
Children need their fathers. We need to destroy the crutches feminism are using to destroy all men they hate. (government promotes feminism because of the many gains they gain from feminism. ie bigger government, more prison labor, more drug users, more police, a reason to take more taxes, and the preparation through destruction of national sovernty for the New World Order, also elite bankers hate Americas power and authority and for the last 150 years have sought to bring us to our knees, KEEP THE FAITH, first through division for a NORTH and SOUTH, during the Civil War, to today through inflation, property taxes, and the fact we are tenants on our own property, read the deed)
So basically we can observe how feminism is the enemy of mankind, and we need to destroy it. Starting with the removal of Alimony, child support, palimony, and any other benefit a woman would receive for withdrawing her services.
http://www.dadsnow.org/essay/garbgen.htm
For those men that haven’t read the above link, please check it out.
To revive America some major changes need to take place! God bless you all!!!
Nice posts guys…
Hi Patriarch,
As usual your information is right on in nailing a host of societies deepest ills to violations in the natural order of things aka feminism.
I wish there was a political leader who had the balls to run on a platform that includes the issues you talk about. A man who could just address his fellow Men and say, “This is why you need to vote for me if you wish to remain a Real Man.”
Keep plugging away my friend.. I’m sure many more guys are getting the right education because of our efforts.
Cheers, GL
I know this is a bit older, but there is always two sides to a coin.
I’ve been raped as a child numerous times (7 years old), once or twice as a teenager and molested once or twice for good measure.
I think that Feminism doesn’t promote self independence or even self healing like you’ve said; It’s a vehicle to escape facing your problems. Thank god my mother always taught me that it’s only worth doing if you can admit to it. So I admit to everything I’ve ever done and I force myself to become better.
I completely agree with you for the most part, because I have met another woman or two who thought they were completely entitled because of one event in their life.
They are like people skiing for the first time, standing at the bottom of the hill refusing to try.
Hi Kara,
I’m sorry to hear about your past but I’m glad to know that you are able to be upfront with yourself over the whole deal. In my mind there are really 2 groups of people in the world. Those that believe that 90% of life is what happens to them and that they only have 10% control of it..
OR
Those that believe that life is only 10% of what happens to them and that they are 90% in control.
These 2 different attitudes truly means the difference between happiness and misery in life. And I think you are starting to realize that.
Good for you! Keep learning and growing Kara.. Cheers GL.
A very good way of looking at it Kara. Nobody learns how to ski or anything else for that matter without a few falls and setbacks to go along with them. If one hasn’t fallen down in life and then got back up, even once, he or she never really lived. Looking at the glass as either half-full or half-empty is the difference between being happy or miserable. Your mother has rubbed off on you, in a good way. Sometimes we’re all handed a lemon and we either have the choice of biting into it or making lemonade from it.
Taras
rw_man– please enlighten us as to which degrees in medicine and psychiatry, especially forensic psychiatry, you hold and the university you graduated from.
What insight into the mind of women who have been sexually abused as children. . .
I think you should get a real life brensgrrl and look at the qualifications described in these blogs. No need to be upset at the hard truths and hide behind the mask of some professional who has no grasp of reality as we know it.
Please put your best foot forward as you seem someone intelligent enough to have already figured this out. I have faith in you.
Canajun
brensgrrl, I’ll have to put my foot down right here. You are wallowing in nothing but ignorance and self hatred. You can’t step up to the plate and admit, evolve, or become a better person; instead, you’re stuck in a paradox of wanting to hate and love at the same time. I KNOW what it’s like, several times over, and I completely agree with him over you. Every other poster with experience with women who allowed their rapes to be the pinacle of their lives have agreed. YOU are in the minority for who gets real love for a reason.
I suggest you start listening to what people who have actually gone through it instead of theories and ideas thought up from femminist pushing agneda goers from universities, who don’t care about the welfare of the women, but the entire emasculation of men. I’m insulted that you think that having a university degree in bullshit means more than living through it.
The only thing that this post says to me is that you are harbouring a great deal of supressed anger and resentment towards some woman/women in your life. You really should save your pseudo-psychoanalysis for the experts. You attack feminists for twisting everything to suit their own agendas and their own problems with the world, and yet you are blind to the fact that this is exactly what you are doing.
I’m sorry you are suffering so greatly.
Jenny,
What I find is much more strange is you deciding to troll and commenting on my blog which is clearly not your cup of tea..
It’s far more obvious that you are the one with the issues because it’s obvious that DENIAL is clearly your Best Friend because you CAN’T Handle the Truth..
Obviously you are “offended” by what I write.. because it’s obviously a dead give away for you wanting to hide your own issues by “projecting” them on to me.. The proof behind this is your lack of willingness or ability to write your own counterpoint in any reasonable or logical manner.
So that makes you nothing more then just a cheap bomb thrower. And because that’s the case then if I offended you with what I wrote.. then GOOD..
Other then that.. Have a nice day..
No my dear, you haven’t offended me. It takes a great deal more than that. And I’m perfectly entitled to write my ‘cheap bombs’ if I want to, just as you’re perfectly entitled to reject them. I’ve got much better things to do than counter your pointless arguments. If there was actually a decent argument to be had, I would be having it. And as for why I’m here – I was just surveying the scenery. Don’t worry your fragile little head about it, I won’t be bothering you again.
“I’ve got much better things to do than counter your pointless arguments.”
Jenny that’s pretty SAD SPIN for your inability to make a rational point. Oldest Feminist Game in the book.. Maybe as Old as your attitude..
If you want to act like a Man and take me on then you are MORE then welcome to it.
If you can’t then admit that you need to run away cause you can’t stomach a Man who is willing to stand-up to your painfully transparent and substance-less BS.
It’s all pretty clear.. You are obviously a Shrew.. and you get really upset when guys like me honestly tag you for what you are. Hence the “impulsive need” for you to troll and throw bombs. Only goes to prove my points behind this blog that much more.. so in that regards.. thank you..
OK, just an opinion. This is not a scientific fact. Here it is.
If I am not mistaken feminism is all about equal rights to women as men. I think feminism in America these days is getting milked for personal agendas. Talking about a cause does not necessarily make one a follower of the cause. These bitter/angry women you are describing are not feminists just because they throw that term around or use it to get their way. You just have to find a way to filter out the real feminists from the posers. Here is what worked for me.
Next time a woman uses that term on you to guilt-trip you, challenge her! Ask her when was the last time she did something for the cause? Ask her when was the last time she demonstrated. Ask her to describe the last feminist book/article she read. You’ll be surprised with the results. She’ll avoid you like a plague. People in general are petrified of those that see right through them. I think, it’s just a game for attention, just like most of these straight girls kissing these days(Which I love, but think about it, they are doing that to get our attention. They are bnot all lesbians or bisexuals). You’ll be surprised to find most of these women can’t even spell feminism.
Sorry, Fez, but I think you ARE mistaken about what feminism is. It is about anything BUT equal rights for men and women. It is a special interest group like any other, trying to get more more more for those it advocates for. Nothing wrong with that, as long as a group is up front about that. And as long as what they say and seek are evaluated in that context, and weighed against other interests.
But neither of these is the case. Compare what feminists say to what they do, and it’s clear that the movement is based on a solid foundation of hypocrisy. And the media regurgitates any claim they make uncritically. They can issue baldfaced lies based on junk science, and it goes straight from the press release into the newspaper without a single fact checked, common sense applied, or alternative viewpoints explored.
The legal and judicial systems are no better. Feminism has essentially choked off any dissent by equating questioning the dogma with hating women. And nobody wants to risk their political career on that.
It goes way beyond a few people trying to get attention. The wimmin who post on here aren’t twisting feminist ideology around one bit. They represent it with complete accuracy.
When women try the guilt trip on me, I just hit them with one of my own, IF I’m in a good mood. Otherwise, I just hit ‘em with the truth and shred their false arguments and lies like tissue paper. Neither scenario’s likely as I do not interact with American women much anymore. I’ve got better things to do than argue with some empty headed female whose brain is good only for holding her skull bones apart.
Taras
Although this might be slightly off the topic, I think there would be a valuable point to be learned from an experience I had. I was working for a trucking company in the shop. This company shall be called “nameless”.
In my previous career, I had driven flatbed tractor trailer rigs. At nameless, I worked in the shop, and they didn’t have flatbeds, just van trailers. I was talking with a few of the drivers, who found out that I drove truck, an so, they asked me what I learned. I said, “That a 90 pound woman should not drive a flatbed.” Guess where that ended me. Sexual sensitivity training. Apparently, saying that was “making it harder for women to climb the corporate ladder”. (Now, I had good reason for saying that. I had seen little 90 pound girls bribing, offering, etc., for someone to tarp their loads. Those tarps weigh 150 pounds a piece, and they’re like trying to hang on to a giant kite if there is a breeze. And there are other reasons that I saw. One little girl was trying to strap down a load of pipe, and she thought it was tight enough, and that it was locked. she let off the bar, and it wasn’t lock, so it slipped, and she caught the bar in the cheekbone. She WAS a nice looking girl.)
Well, once I got out of training, I was talking with a friend, and said, “I don’t understand how they think men and women are the same. If you watch at a university, girls and guys carry their books differently, they walk differently, physically and mentally they’re different. Just curious, have you ever seen a guy have a baby?? Well, besides the Arnold Schwarzenegger movie?” Well, someone else heard me saying that, and I was back in training the next day. For what?? Pointing out a common sense fact of life?? Needless to say, I don’t work there anymore. And I won’t recommend that anyone work for nameless either. They are so worried about what could be perceived as so called harassment (sexual or racial) that I was in training for saying that you don’t see black people lining up and the tanning salons. The funniest part to me was, it was white ‘boys’ ( I won’t call them men, they have no balls or ability to think for themselves) who reported me all the time. This is how far the politically correct feminist and anti-racist movements have gone. That’s way too far.
That’s my 2 bit rant.
Thanks Wolverine..
This is EXACTLY why I’m spending some energy spreading the word on what Cultural Marxism is all about.
The story you just told is a great example of this.
Really the best thing you or anyone of us can do is to be aware and to educate others on what this evil is.
It sounds like a joke on one level but you and I are smart enough to realize that it’s deadly serious.
K
Feminism is the movement that the educated of the world advocate to prevent repressed and dominated women from having to marry controlling, abusive men like yourself. No woman or man should be subjected to the nonsense that you have written here. You are so young mentally and I feel sorry for how angry and misguided you truly are. A woman must have really hurt you in your life, through obvious rejection and humiliation. Let me ask you, are you extremely unattractive?
By the same token Nobobdy, the men’s right’s movement advocates that men should not be oppressed by BOTH women and the state. Many of us have been betrayed by women, more than once and in more ways than one. Betrayal of a deeply personal nature is never forgotten by those subjected to it. You’re damn right a lot of men are angry, and they are angry for good reason. Others are doing what’s best for them. Who’s business is it if they choose to marry someone outside their county or race if that person is the one for them? If you don’t like the fact men who’ve been wronged are taking steps to rectify their situation, tough nuts. Like a guerilla war, we’ve not yet begun to fight, and we’re fighting the good fight. I’m too old to be angry with women anymore, I laugh at the ones who deserve it instead. As for feminism, it’s marxism in disguise, and it’s goal is depopulation of the world by totally disrupting relations between men and women, and wrecking families so the global elite can control us more easily. That’s all it is, it’s not about equality, it’s about dictatorship.
Taras
Fresh meat!!
I think that all the women who post here and call us “unattractive” should be required to post links to their own photos. If they refuse, they should be banned.
Hero, I totally agree.
Btw, it’s also very funny when you see some feminist women in person or see photos of them, and it’s clear that they are fat / very unattractive (especially in comparison with the Russian women on GL’s site), but they still keep on saying things like “I consider myself very attractive” and “most people consider me attractive”, and it is clear that they are delusional and full of themselves.
–Luke
Nobody..
(I love the name by the way speaks volumes)
One of the greatest things I’ve learned about insecure Bomb Throwers like you is that they ALWAYS make accusations towards others that are ACTUALLY TRUE Statements about THEMSELVES..
So with that in mind.. let’s take a look at your some of your statements..
“Controlling, abusive men like yourself”
“No woman or man should be subjected to the nonsense that you have written here.”
“You are so young mentally and I feel sorry for how angry and misguided you truly are.”
“Let me ask you, are you extremely unattractive?”
Oh on top of that they usually leave an interesting tag name which totally demonstrates who they are internally..
Are you listening Nobody?
GL