Perhaps one of the most amazing things I’ve ever witnessed is the deep level of pride that Traditional Russian Women quietly carry within themselves.?
It’s something that’s incredible to experience but it can be very difficult to describe since it run’s completely counter to what Western Men are commonly used to seeing in the Women that surround them.
A Russian Woman’s pride is expressed in various ways but it’s especially noticable during the Dating Phase with how they expect to be treated by a Man.
Now the very first thing you should know about Russian Women and Dating is this…
They will NEVER Actively Pursue a Man.
They don’t ask Men for phone numbers.. They don’t initiate phone calls.. And they certainly NEVER ask Men out for Dates..
The very idea of this is completely offensive to them.
What they do instead is spend a great deal of energy looking their absolute best and they expect the right Man to take notice of this and to treat them like the Princess that they deserve to be…
Now if a Man wishes to gain any respect while Dating a Russian Woman he also needs to express the fact that she is the only Woman in existence as far as he’s concerned. She needs to feel that no other Woman in the entire Universe matters except for her… and this needs to take place usually within the first few dates!
Keep in mind she’s not looking for you to inflate her Vanity..
She’s only looking for you to show your Sincerity.
And anything less will be quickly discarded by her.
Now the really incredible thing about a Russian Woman’s sense of pride is this..
Her expectations of complete devotion don’t change one bit even if she knows that there are hundreds of other girls available for a small number of good Men.
She simply doesn’t pay attention to these “Relationship Odds” and will NOT alter her standards because of them..
She only cares for what is REAL..
It’s either a Man’s dedication to her ALL THE WAY..
Or her quickly saying.. “NO WAY”..
Now because I have literally seen these standards at work all the time here in Russia..
I COMPLETELY LAUGH when I see comments posted by Ignorant and Jealous Western Feminist who try to tag these Ladies as being “Desperate”.
On the contrary..
Even when there are No Men available these Ladies simply dive into their work and do everything possible to improve themselves both physically and intellectually.? This is not to say that they don’t get lonely for the company of a Man because obviously they do. But until that opportunity presents itself they will continue to do their own thing.
And they are fully prepared to keep their heads held high EVEN to the bitter end if needed..
Maintaining their composure at all costs means everything to a Traditional Russian Woman..
So even during these challenging and lonely times..
I have NEVER seen any of them act in the cartoonishly “Desperate” way that Western Feminists try so hard to slant them with.
And this makes me openly wonder who the Desperate Women really are?
Because Desperation is simply not part of a Russian Woman’s vocabulary when it comes to their inner desire to be with a Man..
In Reality… Many Russian Women have a MYSTERIOUS POWER to lure Men towards them instead..
And they often do this with very few words ever being spoken.
Or in the very wise words of one of my friends who described this phenomenon perfectly…
So you think you were actually the one who was in control of this situation when you decided to approach her?
HA!
She only made you believe that!
So Gentlemen, If you ever want to know what REAL POWER from a Woman truly is.. you will just have to hop on a Jet in order to experience and understand all of this for yourself..
And when this Mysterious Feminine Power first zaps the living hell out of you like a Bolt of Lightning out of the sky and leaves you gasping for air..
I know you’re going to be saying to yourself..
“DAMN.. That felt GOOD!”
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Simply amazing. Russian woman want men to be men. Sounds like a fairy-tale only found in children’s books. I dont think there is an American man anywhere who would’nt love to court one of these beautiful delicate females in a way that commands nothing, but respect from both of them. Wonderful concept a Russian woman wants to be treated as a real princess. These are the things that you and I were taught as a boy and now if your lucky… you get to put them into practice, WOW simply amazing….
For a reference to this below post…
Please find photo’s 11, picture ONE or 1:11
and you will understand the below statement:
Just want my 1:11
She’s the only woman for me!
Goin out in the world to get all I need
Gettin it all for that 1:11
So take heed!
Just like when PICO went to ROME!
That 1:11 will be my home.
Won’t need to post 900 Thesis for debate
For that 1:11 I will wait.
Don’t give yourself away
I’ll be careful what I say,
Persuasive lips like a bright red flower
Like Rose Hips …. food for my every waking hour
My 1:11 like Just like a ROSE
Blossoming on thorny briar tangles…
Flower through June and begin to set their haws,
Now I embark on a challenge..
as one end goes up, the other goes down.
Hoping to find my 1:11 once I put an end to all of life’s seesaw’s
Just want my 1:11
Another great post by rw_man. American feminists will never understand the art of courtship by Russian women. Russian ladies are so confident and their sense on identity is so secure that they do not need to play headgames. Men of my generation will never experience this “art” because it no longer exists in the U.S. Instead it is supplanted by the feminist method of “hooking up”. There is no courtship in the U.S. as far as I’m concerned. American men need to experience this type of courtship again, for if they do, it’a all over for the Ameriskanks.
I agree 100 percent that these Russian ladies have some mysterious power to draw men to them. Its their beauty, grace, humility, inner resolve and much more that I can’t describe. They show so much more class than our boorish American feminists.
A man like me is only interested in a woman who is willing to be saved, such as a damsel in distress (RW).
That is why men like me are through with AW,
Because when the window of internalised other (the spirit/soul) closed in childhood for AW, it jammed shut – never to let light in again/in forever darkness/soulless.
To understand what American Men see in AW from day to day here in America, read the following for what it’s worth:
The narcissist is not just weak, stupid, vain and unrealistic. Because if their (AWs) condition was just a composite of common character flaws, they could change them, grow out of it, be reasoned with. Nor is it just an act of will, for when they (AW) are shown that their interests are not best served by their unflinching selfishness, there is no change in them (AW)!
Narcissism is a mental illness – a psychological disease which shares many characteristics with schizophrenia. It is a ‘self’ trapped in and constructed solely by, infinite selfishness repeating throughout their empty lives. It cannot change. It cannot be treated.
American Men should only be in a helpmeet/marriage if they want children of their own and a wife that will support them.
AM go to Eastern Europe and Russia because we see that there are aquiescent, submissive and feminine women there who will gladly receive our direction, way of life and masculinity.
We look out for/see women who are the compliment to our life’s achievements. We are looking for a wife to bear our kids, and also a devoted helpmate for life.
And furthermore for their to be intimacy you must have exclusivity and permanence. Sex is an act of possession. A woman can not be possessed by many men and ever belong to one; at that point the ability to love a man by trusting him dies.
AM do not want AW because they try to control, compete and constantly complain about everything we say and do. AW are encouraged to castrate/deny themselves/identity and become something they are never going to be: Men. Stop being “smarter, better, faster” than the men you meet. To some extent, a woman self effaces her childishness/self-ishness (which is what is required) and lives through the husband and children. Women should get to know a man you naturally/spiritually look up to, with respect and trust. Don’t waste time with boys. The marriage union involves the exchange of female power (in the worldly sense) for male power expressed as (otherworldly) love. A woman loves a man by acquiescing and trusting him and him only. A man will not express his love to a controlling, challenging and competing woman (for instance current AW).
A proper woman gives a man the power to fulfill her needs (or not.) Of course he will consult her, his decisions will always be fair and just. women should get to know a man with a powerful and certain (without doubt) point of view of life, with a specific place/use for a woman in his life.
There is an implied message here for men.
We have to provide leadership/direction for women and children who are willing to learn from us and earn unflinching trust and devotion from them.
Excellent article! too often have I seen “girls”, females unfit of the title woman, lower their standards to the absolute minimum so they wouldn’t be “lonely”. I am just as lonely as them, but I don’t care if I have to wait 10 years to find the man I can look up to. These Russian ladies truly are an excellent rolemodel for any girl looking to become a real woman.
C: that was extremely well written! I’m glad you also included the part about the man stepping up to the plate. I think when girls’ standards fall, so do the mans. They don’t need to become gentlemen or courteous if the girl herself is willing to sell herself for far less than she might really be worth.
I remember an article once, where they compared an american pagent model in a bikini to a woman in a burka – one believes she owns herself yet she belongs to everyone, and the other belongs only to her family. I think that contrast is extremely interesting.
Thank You Kara for your consideration and understanding of my thoughts.
You can find the article Bikini vs. Burka at:
http://savethemales.ca/180902.html
That website’s author, Henry Makow, has interesting insight into the purpose of men and women in life.
EE..
If you are inspired now.. Just wait..
You’d really be the hip hop mixing mofo bustin fool once you get here..
Or wait.. are you really the classic 70′s romantic pop ballad guy instead??
I’d like to consider myself the Gino Vanelli, Barry White, Commodores,
Billy Paul kinda guy myself..
In anycase keep up the rhymes My Man!
Thanks Kzarz,
You nailed it.. what these ladies do on this level is truly an art form..
It really is like some timeless and classic dance form.. And it can be anything from a grandiose waltz to a hot and sexy tango.
Whether you are Dancing or Dating a Russian Woman doesn’t really matter.. because they both have a full range of “motions” that allows you to experience an equally full range of “emotions”..
And to get the most out of it really requires you as a Man to be a steady, strong and assured partner..
It is my hope that more Men can understand the deeper meaning behind this so that one day they can also take the lovely hand of a lovely woman and confidently lead her to the center of the ballroom where they rightfully belong..
David,
Fairy tales are a big part of this culture.. The average Russian Woman knows by heart countless anecdotes and Fairy Tale Morals then any group of Western Women who probably have a hard time trying to figure out what Goldilocks that the 3 Bears was all about..
These stories are a very important part of how traditional feminine knowledge and values gets handed down from generation to generation..
So you can bet that there is a REAL Expectation for you or any Man who courts a Russian Woman to treat them like a REAL Princess..
And of course I’m not using the word “Princesss” with any trace of being derogatory which unfortunately too often seems to be the case in our Modern World.
These Women are certainly OLD SCHOOL in all ways….
And in my mind that makes them True Loving Sanctuaries in this often jaded time of ours..
Hi Albert,
Thanks for joining us.. And thank you for your great comment.. Wouldn’t want to change a word..
Please tell your buddies about us..
GL
Right on C..
Sometimes I’m really torn on how to feel towards Narcissistic Women..
On one hand I’m revolted by their jaded behavior and wish to avoid them like the plague just like any normal Men would..
But Sometimes I actually feel sadness for the blindness that they openly choose to accept.. It’s because I know that they are desperately trying to bury any hint of vulnerability in return for a false and artificial sense of security..
But as we all know it’s just an empty and loveless trap for them.. and often a life long one at that..
One can only wonder what the greater lesson is in all of this..
I concur RW Man;
Excellent post and comments from all. I am beginning to understand alittle of this through our communications and feel so much more substance to a relationship through my lady.
It is beginning to sink through of how much more character she has through NON-verbal communications and HOW she explains her life and desires to me versus the demands she would have if from Canada or America. Very refreshing.
Canajun
Absolutly, Canajun: great post, great comments and great blog,rw_man. I learned a lot along these lines. And it helped me a lot to better understand my first Russian lady, i.e. the princess syndrom. They really deserve to be treated like princesses and if you do, they treat you like a king.All of you gentlemen probably have had some experience in trying to treat Western girls like princesses: they just dont understand the concept any more. Too sad for them and too sad for all the buddies who have no idea that alternatives exist.
I am an American woman who can tell you that I am certainly not a feminist and I like and want to be treated like a princess. Not all of us are feminist and the feminist are a small majority. I am so tired of all the criticizm we receive about us western women. I personally believe it’s in all how you are brought up. I am from the a christian state and we have morals here and I and I can speak for other American women a small few may ask for a mans phone number but the majority doesn’t, we like the man to be a tradtional gentlemen and call us when he wants to pursue. I personally like it when a man has morals because I do and I want to be treated respectfully. I am by far no means desperate and I can speak for the rest of us American women. I find this to be very disrespectful to us. Russian women are beautiful but so are all women in the USA. Please stop underestimating us American women, we are just as beautiful and smart as the Russian women with traditional values to boot. Thank you for letting me submit my opinion.
Hi Jodi
The men here aren’t complaining that ALL women are like that, it’s just very hard to find a woman whose ideals are like the russians. I remember Rwman saying once that for every woman in America who has traditional values like that, there are tens-hundreds more in Russia. I think there are alot of women who are beautiful both inside and out, but a glance at the TV and we can definately tell that women are looked at and expected to act a different way.
I can agree with you though, it’s hard to find a man who will treat us like princesses. I think it’s because women are such objects now, some men don’t need to try because they think that there’s nothing more to it. Hang in there, we’ll find someone ;D
Thanks for posting your comment too.
Hi Jodi,
And thanks for joining us. When you get a chance please read my FAQ page and that should give you an idea as to where I stand as far as American Women are concerned because none of this is meant to slant a non-feminist southern lady like yourself.
However.. I strongly believe that you completely underestimate just how ingrained and insidious Feminism has been towards American and Western Women. And my blog is a direct frontal assault on this movement and it’s members… Not on the remaining women like you who do not partake in it’s denigration and hatred towards Men.
When you get a chance check out other anti-feminism sites like this one to get a clearer idea as to how destructive this movement has been towards American Women..
http://awomanagainstfeminism.blogspot.com/
Jodi, you wrote:
“Russian women are beautiful but so are ALL women in the USA” (emphasis added)
You can not be serious. The majority of American women are overweight, with 34% of them being obese. It’s hard even to find a woman without tattoos or body piercings in weird places like her tongue, navel, lip, nose, or eyebrow area. Not to mention the fact that they never dress nicely, not even for church.
Yes, there are quality women in the USA but they are so few and far between that virtually none of them is actually available. If a great American lady does happen to become unattached, her solitary state lasts for about a tenth of a second before 100 men rush in to fight over her, like air rushing in to fill a vacuum.
If you are angry about the way American women are treated, stop blaming men and start blaming the feminazis who comprise the majority of western women.
Jodi, of course I understand that most of you wish to be treated as princesses and for sure not all of American (or European) women are feminists. But what happened in the past 30-40 years of feminism is a gradual and often subliminal change in the female attitude towards men and the concept of family. There is nothing wrong about feminism as long it is addressing matters like equal legal rights for women etc., but when feminism tries to change some psychobiolocical foundations (love, family) then something is on the wrong side of the river. Could it be that there is a connection between feminism and the new demographics, i.e. that population “growth” declines rapidly in the west? What did feminism tell you girls? That you can have it all! Make a career, be independent from the support of men (I remember one pamphlet advertising that men are not even needed any more for making babies because women could get sperm in specialized clinics!!!) and get a child when you achieved everything else, which often is when a woman is above 40 – the only bad thing is that female fertility declines rapidly after 30, which means that a lot of these women will not get any children any more. Maybe the first costumers in clinics where you got artificial fertilisation were those feminists who thought to do everything without men, but nowadays the waitingrooms are filled with desperate women who have to recognize that something went wrong in their lifes – despite fun, career, independency and so on: what feminism told them is important. Russian women in terms of climate and history clearly had a disadvantageous life to their western sisters, but it seems they have an advantage on their side now. At least if they meet some of these guys who are contributing to this wonderful subversiv blog. And Jodi: I wish you find your knight (at this point not all men are leaving for Russia or Thailand:))
Jodi, we don’t hate American women, we hate what all too many of them are being perverted into by a government and a malignant philosophy that’s out of control. We’ve come to realize that marriage in this country is akin to a ship that’s been ripped in half by a torpedo and is now sinking so quickly most of the crew will perish below decks. We’ve made the choice not to be sucked under in a steel coffin, figuratively speaking. If you wish to avoid the same fate, realize what feminism has become a monster whose real goal is global de-population and a dramatic increase in the power of governments and corporations to dominate ALL facets of our private lives. It’s steeped in Marxism, a cancer that has killed hundreds of millions of people already globally. How many of your female friends can say they are truly happy? From how I see many women behave today, I can see many of them are miserable, but do not see to know why they are that way. I recognize that not all American women are a trainwreck in motion, but as the others have said, the ones who are not are a small majority. Marriage is a very high stakes deal even under the best of circumstances. It’s imperative the man you marry will be a life partner who would support you through thick and thin. The problem is that all too many women do not share this view, that marriage is merely a chance to punch out some kids, and or take a man for everything he’s got. It’s the ole feminist BS that what’s mine is mine, what’s his is ours. Ditto for the propaganda that all men are violent brutes out to hurt every woman and girl who comes their way. If that were true, you would hide from the world in terror. Men and boys are being treated as less than human constantly, and that is why there is so much misogyny out there. It’s why young men do not respect women any more. To qoute the Marines, respect is “earned, never given.” Surely you must be disgusted at how many women act these days. Don’t aid and abett it. And no, it’s not how we were brought up, it’s the crappy treatment all of us got at the hands of American women. We’re taking a stand and voting with our feet.
Taras
Well said, Taras. I made a stand and travelled to Russia to find a true lady.
When I lived in the US, I couldn’t sometimes understand your relationships.I mean for Russian women it is very important to be the only one, to be really beloved, to mean everything. If you make a woman feel like a princes, you will get everything: love, care. Men make women real.
Thank you for your answers, I did not expect so many replies. Yes, there is a problem here in America on family issues now, it’s not what is used to be. A percentage of the U.S. has change so much on our traditional values and families are disapearing. Blame the government for that. If the percentage is correct the 34% of people who are overweight are the ones with diabeties, you can blame that on the FDA who passed fat free foods to the American people for maintaining their weight which was loaded with fatty oils. This increased the sudden rise in weight gain in the early 80′s and this a big part of obesity here in America. Actually, women here can be too skinny, you can blame all the fashion magazines on that and Hollywood. Anorexia is a big problem in America. Women and girls are underweight. 3 out of 5 girls and women are underweight. People needs to do their homework on women here. Fortunetly, I live in a state that still believes in family and values, but I can see that slowly disappearing. American men are not the gentlemen they used to be which makes it bad for some of us women who want to get married and make a family. These facilities which you can go into and get pregnant so to speak, well men must support it or they wouldn’t be donating!!!! They get paid to do this. Money talks and this is another issue in America with the men, they support stuff like this. How can an American women, with traditional values find the gentlemen she deserves, do all of us have to move to Europe to get our prince? European men need to teach SOME of these American men how to be the gentlemen they once was. Do all of us non-feminist American women have to move from America? I love it when a man opens the door for me and the ones who do still act like a gentlemen are taken.I do agree that the marines has something to do with teaching men not to respect. The marines have an enlistment as large as the planet. I agree with Tara on this malignant philosophy, she is right. Sometimes I feel sucked into all this crap and go against what I believe in just to make the modern man happy. The traditional man are the ones who get sucked up like a vaccuum, sometimes it takes a little aggression to catch one of these men and when you do then you can relax and be the woman you are. Shoo!!!! That’s what it takes sometimes. HERO, I like to know where you get your analogy on American women, as far as body piercing, not dressing for church, what do you do? Do you sit back and survey everyone in America to get your analogy on this? It’s great to be attractive on the outside but I have noticed that has become to be the most important over the inside these days. Hero, you seem to be narrow minded here on how American women act and how we look. I don’t want to make you angry but your view is questionable. Hayo, I will find my Knight and it will be in Russia and it will be pursued in the right way, as this non-feminist deserves. I should say though that it is only a small to medium majority of women who work and if we work we still have our duties at home. It is really in all on how you feel inside. Sometimes women in America can have the career and family too. The majority of men here don’t object to this, its all in how you go about it. I like to see the actual percentage on a real study on American women and what they expect from life and what their opinions are on family. Feminist are a small majority here, it comes in groups like the skin heads or gangs. I can guarantee the percentage is high on the traditional side. Where I come from here in Kentucky, southern women are very much into staying home, being the wife and raising a family. I am not male bashing here but there are alot of women who have to compromise to the modern man just to please them. Isn’t that what is all about?
The female American non-feminists have not done enough in my mind to differentiate themselves from the feminist American women. It isnt because we havent given enough women a chance either. It must be because they are a small minority and havent made themselves known to the good American men out there. And if they dont make themselves known, then I dont see any reason why I or any other non-feminist man should go out of the way to sift through the mountains of feminist women in order to find the one gem in the bunch. Why not go to a place where the non-feminist women are in the great majority and it is blatantly obvious they are good women from the start?
Both “traditional women” and American feminists play coy, shy, and “you must approach me” from the beginning. If both are using that technique, there’s no need to approach, seeing as the majority of the time you are going to encounter a feminist.
tyhigs,
I guess you have never been to the southern part of America or you would have found your girl. You will also have to approach a russian woman like a gentlemen, when you go there to look for her because being a lady she is, she will not approach you. Your analogy of american women is wrong. Maybe you should take a trip first to the south. Southern women are like the russian ladies. We like the gentlemen and we like to be treated like a princess and we like to be approached first. I believe some of you are wrong about american women, the percentage rate of women here being overweight is slim and you can blame Hollywood for that, because most american women are underweight, it’s the older men and older women with diabeties that has the highest percentage. But, I agree that we are losing some of our values here in America but this is a place where people wanted convenience and if you want to keep what you have then the men need to keep their jobs. I am no where near feminist, I frankly prefer to stay at home and I believe that men make the decisions in the household but this is a country where it takes two incomes to make it and if you don’t you are on welfare because not all the men here can keep a job and make lots of money. As far as american women being train wrecks in motion yeah we are because we receive too many false criticisms and too many analogies on what we are which is not true. I do believe that people go for looks anymore than what is on the inside, that seems to take precedence over everything with american men. I think that the american women take to much blame for the men looking elsewhere because the men have lost their loyalty to be faithful and like to have more than one. Most of us women here believe in the true traditional families. There are just not enough gentlement with the sincerity we need to prove who we are.
Hello to all and Jodi, you are incorrect. You may be one indeed as I do not know you, but I work with and HAVE worked and been around many American and Canadian women for years and every day.
The talk around the cooler, within and out of work meetings. Their lives, experiences and dreams of the future are sickening. The men are by no means angels, but our society has become so anti-male it’s rediculous. The actions of so few have corrupted and biased the whole of society in this regard.
Today I found a site in America for spousal violence. Thanks to Amen out of Ireland. NOWHERE on the site is there even mention of female abuse to males. It is non-existent. As I mentioned before, Wisconsin looks like a bunch of cro-magnons when it comes to the abuse against males. Open your eyes and perhaps those of others can be awakened.
Maybe in the NEXT life.
Canajun
RW_Man,
What is the attitude of a ‘typical’ Russian Woman towards moving to a different country, i.e. the USA? Even if she speaks English, she would be in a different country and culture. Difficult question, possibly not answerable as every person has their interests/preference/comfort zone. I’ve only met one Russian Woman here in the USA, pseudo-blind date set-up by a mutual aquantance. She had been in the USA for a year or so, but clearly still getting used to/learning the cuture (even though she spoke near perfect English). Pretty girl, educated and smart, but 19 years seemed a big age difference.
As for Jodi’s comments, Taras has pretty well covered things. What few American Women there are that qualify as ‘Ladies’ are too few and too hard to find/court. Especially here in the People’s Republic of Seattle.
I was going to write a long dissertation responding to Jodi but I will just wish her well in finding her European prince. But in my opinion, the American prince is the best there is. I should know, my Russian wife tell me that almost everyday.
Jodi,
You seem to live in some sort of a fantasy world. I don’t even know where to begin my reply, but I’ll try.
You said:
“If the percentage is correct the 34% of people who are overweight are the ones with diabeties, you can blame that on the FDA”
Blaming the government, are we? If a woman sits on the couch all day stuffing her face and watching soap operas, is that a consequence of Federal policy??
You said:
“Anorexia is a big problem in America. Women and girls are underweight. 3 out of 5 girls and women are underweight.”
Yes, anorexia is a problem in America, but obesity is a much bigger problem. And where in the world did you get that statistic that 3 out of 5 girls and women are underweight?! I get my statistics from the surgeon general’s office and the Journal of the American Medical Society. If women are under so much pressure to be thin, then why do I see so many fit men dating hogs?
You said
“American men are not the gentlemen they used to be”
And American women are not the ladies they used to be. If a woman acts like a whore then she’s gonna be treated like one.
You said
“do all of us have to move to Europe to get our prince? ”
LOL, just try traveling and seeing what foreign men think of American women. Instead of going to Europe, how about taking a trip to Afghanistan so you can see how the men over there treat their women? I guarantee that if you do that you’ll NEVER complain about American men again.
You said
“HERO, I like to know where you get your analogy on American women, as far as body piercing, not dressing for church, what do you do? Do you sit back and survey everyone in America to get your analogy on this?”
No, I haven’t surveyed everyone in America, but I have observed thousands of women all over the country. And I see slovenly, freakish looking women EVERYWHERE.
You said:
“It’s great to be attractive on the outside but I have noticed that has become to be the most important over the inside these days.”
What hypocrisy. WOMEN are the shallow ones. When was the last time you dated a fat guy, or a bald guy, or a guy who was more than five years older than you? Like I said before, I see hordes of good-looking, successful young men in serious relationships with absolute skanks, so don’t preach to me about men being shallow.
You said
“Hayo, I will find my Knight and it will be in Russia ”
What have you been smoking?? Russian men want nothing to do with you.
I could go on but this is getting old.
I say let her try to find her cigarette smoking, vodka drinking, potential hepatitis-c infecting Russian man. Let her travel to Russia and see what kind of competition she is up against. Jodi, you better be smokin’ hot ready to spew some serious lava or else your Russian prince won’t consider you hot enough to spit on. Please do keep us informed as to your progress.
HERO: Well said.
Jodi said:
” You will also have to approach a russian woman like a gentlemen, when you go there to look for her because being a lady she is, she will not approach you.”
Absolutely, and this is fine, because I know from experience that foreign women are appreciative about a man approaching them and are reasonable with their expectations of men. They are also usually decent when it comes to turning down men who they arent interested in.
This is unlike American women who simply think “Oh God, another loser, another day. Who does he think he is to hit on someone like me?! Men are like buses. Wait five mins and another one comes along. So prove to me how good you are!”
Anyone who doubts this should read “Sexploytation”. It goes into great detail about how cruel and self-absorbed women are in the dating process from start to finish.
Dating and approaching women was actually pleasant when I was in Europe for two years. In N. America, it is a nightmare.
And I dont buy the “Southern women are better” myth. Arent you drawing the same distinction between north vs south that we are making with foreign vs American? That wouldnt be hypocracy or anything.
Also, southern women receive the same subliminal messages from the media and public school system that northern women receive, the divorce rates are the same as northerners, and I do believe the out of wedlock birthrate is actually higher in southern/red states.None of this is because they are more traditional than northen women.
I’ve been to the south, specifically New Orleans (before the disaster). I will grant you that people are more superficially polite. I dont see the women as being more man-friendly though.
Jodi said:
“the percentage rate of women here being overweight is slim”
Please cite some statistics.
Jodi said:
“…and you can blame Hollywood for that, because most american women are underweight…”
False. Please cite statistics. This sounds like the argument “You men are the cause of women having eating disorders.” Of course any woman under 160lbs is considered underweight to most American feminists.
Jodi said:
“.. this is a country where it takes two incomes…”
yes, because women thought it would be great to go to work. hahaha, which basically depressed wages by half and inflated prices of necessities. But these working women still want to marry a man who makes more than them so they can quit work, while other women are competing for jobs with wages sufficient to support a family. So the average salary man can barely afford to get married. Heck, he doesnt even get a wink from a woman if she knows he cant afford to support her spending sprees. Yes, you can thank women for this one. It is a direct result of “liberation”. If it werent for this, virtually all American women could live the housewife lifestyle of the 1950s. But they were so eager to HAVE IT ALL, that they actually slipped backwards on this one.
Jodi said:
“As far as american women being train wrecks in motion yeah we are because we receive too many false criticisms and too many analogies on what we are which is not true. ”
Evidence? Blaming men – a feminist tactic, from a non-feminist. How does one follow from the other? I think you got the causality backwards. American women receive criticisms because they are trainwrecks, not the other way around; receiving criticism doesnt make women trainwrecks. Explain how this is the case, please.
Jodi said:
” I do believe that people go for looks anymore than what is on the inside, that seems to take precedence over everything with american men. ”
This is it. American men are just sooooooooo superficial. I think most men would be happy with a woman who has a mediocre looking face and is NOT OVERWEIGHT. Contrast this with American women. First the man has to pass the looks test, then the financial test, then the “jerk/bad boy” test. Now tell me, who is more superficial?
Jodi said:
” I think that the american women take to much blame for the men looking elsewhere because the men have lost their loyalty to be faithful and like to have more than one.”
How do you figure it is the men? Men were happy with the system before feminism, although it was imperfect. It was women who decided they wanted to act like men while receiving all the perks of being female. That is female disloyalty to men. So why should American men be loyal to women who want the best of both worlds with the obligations of neither AND who want men to be both the tough guy and the sensitive guy at the same time? Phahaha!!
Jodi said:
“There are just not enough gentlement with the sincerity we need to prove who we are. ”
This is because women dont respect gentlemen. I will clue you into something. The sex who invests the most in the birth of children is the one who sets the standards in the mating rituals. In other words, since women invest 9 months in children, they are the ones with the most power when it comes to the selection of mates. This is a FACT OF BIOLOGY! Do you know who women are choosing? They are rejecting the niceguys EN MASSE. As human beings, we adapt (most of the logical ones anyway). When men are rejected for being nice to women and realize that the jerks are the ones who receive female affection, what do you think happens? The guys who would ordinarily be gentlemen become jerks. This is the way women want it subsconsciously. They associate being bad/difficult to control with being rich and powerful.
Hahahahahahahaha. Women dont even see that the reason for their misery is WOMEN!
Sorry for a second post, but I just wanted to point something out. For someone who claims to be “different” ( as if they all dont claim the same thing when the true nature of woman is described ), she sure resorts to the typical feminist game of blaming men FOR EVERYTHING THAT IS WRONG WITH MODER RELATIONSHIPS.
Next up: Men are responsible for wars, and if women were in charge, the world would be peace. love and happiness.
And they say there are good women who escape feminist indoctrination?! haha
tyhigs: From your post I have reached the conclusion that ALL AMERICAN WOMEN ARE FEMINISTS. Thank you for the enlightenment. Now do you know of a good travel agent because I want to get my a$$ out of here.
I am only a woman with an opinion it doesn’t make me a feminist. I have always believed in the perfect gentlemen. My expectations are high because I expect the same out of man as a man who expects the same out of a women. I can see alot of false accusations here. You misinterpet what I was saying. My argument was that a statement was said that American women were Feminists. You point out the ALL, which you assumed that we all were feminist. I never said that men were to blame for everything its just some who have lost their way of being a man. SOME. If you don’t want a woman to take up for herself then find you a MUTE!!!!!!Your definition of feminism is not what it is. You accuse women for speaking there mind as a feminist. What happens when we stop communicating here. Where will you be then. I guess we should just be quiet and not say what we think or how we (women) feel. I don’t know of any man where I am from that likes a women to be quiet as a matter of fact communication is the key to a perfect relationship and a good marriage. The women brings the issues to the man and he makes the decisions. Your analysis on a women is basically rejection and speaking her mind which you define as feminism is nothing more than a load of poop!!!!!!
Go away now Jodi. I think the men here are tired of you and your feminist rants, your mis-information and your lack of intelligence on the subjuects that you bring up. We really shouldn’t waste our time responding to someone that has a blatant feminist point of view. Please go to Russia or Europe or whatever and find your husband. Leave us in peace but most importantly, just leave.
Yeah, get a life, Jodi.
Jodi,
You don’t really get what we are really saying. You also don’t get what we are trying to show you the reality of the current society here in the USA. We are challenging your view and try to show your errors and flaws in what you were telling us. We are using evidences, real observations and logical facts to back up what we say. We are much more interested in knowing what’s reality, not the delusional and fantasy world. Opinions don’t count as facts. There are HUGE difference between opinions and facts.
In your latest response, you define our statements, real statistics and facts as “false accusations.” You accused us that we are taking away your right to speak for your mind and shut you up. You are totally wrong! We found some flaws and errors in your statements, and we reject them outright because they are non-sense and out of reality. We are asking you to take time to research and find evidences and observe what’s out there to verify what we are saying. You decided not to do that because of your own hubris and arrogance making accusations on us for being “out of the line” according to your own small deluded world of reality.
Please don’t preach to men about communication. According to you, you claim that men here are more interested to have quiet and mindless girls who can’t speak at all. You are totally wrong! We don’t really want any mindless and lazy girls with no intelligence. We truly want women who can think for herselves and know what’s reality in this world and mother nature. We rather to have girls who can tell us something that we may not think of and give something of value to us. Then, Men can decide if it’s a good idea or not.
We believe that both men and women are equal, but they are NOT interchangable. Both genders have their real strengths according to Mother Nature. Both use their strengths and best talents to complement each other in relationships. We men have some weaknesses. That’s the area where women really can complement with her best strengths and abilities.
Enough with my comments. I really don’t bother with female logic anymore. I wish you great luck in your search for European and Russian men with your already flawed and erroneous views.
Jodi, one day spent with my father, who’s Ukrainian by the way, would convice you Slavic
men are not for you. They wear the pants, they will not want to be with women who also aspire to wear the pants. Also, my name is Taras, not Tara. Taras is a very common name in Greece, Ukraine and Russia and it’ss always a masculine name. There is no female form of Taras, and it’s not an either or name like Sasha or Alex is. If you call a man Tara in the Ukraine you’ll probably get a lot of giggles from everyone in earshot of you. Yes, I am a guy who’s old enough to be your dad. We don’t wish to come across as mean spirited, but we sincerely disagree with you on this because we know there’s a lot seriously wrong with American women and relationships in general in America. That is one reason why I am more interested in Eastern European women than American women, and another is that I have a great deal of Russian and Ukrainian blood. I look like one of them, so why not flock with others who do too? I would like to learn more about Eastern Europe, and I hope one day I can actually go there for a visit. I may decide to emmigrate there.
Taras
heck, I apologize for all these “men” here. They dont want a “strong independent woman” who expresses her own “opinions”. [/sarcasm]
There is a quote I made a few years ago. Here it is: “I am proud to be a super-bitch, but if you dont find me attractive, you’re a weak, insecure loser who’s threatened by strong women.” – Typical Ameriskank.
Now compare it to this: “I am only a woman with an opinion it doesn’t make me a feminist.” … ” If you don’t want a woman to take up for herself then find you a MUTE!!!!!!”… “You accuse women for speaking there mind as a feminist.” == I AM A STRONG, INDEPENDENT WOMAN, HEAR ME YOUR .
Tell me again why men should bother dealing with American women, when nearly all of them – even those who consider themselves to be non-feminists – all equate being ‘opinionated’ with illogical, irrational statements blaming men for crimes women are responsible for? Hmm?
” I guess we should just be quiet and not say what we think or how we (women) feel.”
Yes, go think and feel somewhere else. Maybe somewhere down south. LOL. Whats wrong? Are you afraid that men are leaving American womans far behind? hahahah.It certainly couldnt be the women. It must be the “weakness” of those American male LOSERS!!!!!!! ahahaha
” I don’t know of any man where I am from that likes a women to be quiet.” Then tell me why is it that you are not with a man where you are from if they appreciate women like you?
I think American women have mistaken obnoxious, combative behavior with having opinions. Foreign women have opinions, too. They just dont beat you over the head with them. Know why? Cause they werent brainwashed with the nonsense that THE WOMAN IS ALWAYS RIGHT/ABOVE ALL CRITICISM, like American women have.
Cheerio.
To get back to you rw_man on your thoughts in comment 12. about a “higher meaning” “a moral to this story” or “an important lesson to be learned.”
And I believe that the lesson to be learned can be summed up as: “A picture is worth a few words, not 1000 words.”
Which means we must judge women based on their actions and not on their intentions.
You should not feel bad for these women that are obsessed with vanity and materialistic things because there are so many of them.
I find it better to focus only on those women who compliment our masculinity in a spiritual sense. To only consider the women who act and behave as women were intended to: in a feminine way.
It is best to focus only on women who accept us as we are and do not want to change us, a woman who accepts a man’s leadership and direction and understands that a “man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do”.
To Taras and QuietRebel,
Thank you for the nice reply. You both sound like respectable people. This is the constructive critism that I listen too. I would like to say that I noticed that I cannot get a good answer from all of you because I have been assumed as a feminist. I have always respected men and never once tried to “wear the pants”. I am a christian and we believe in respecting men, for who he is.I just think that some of you refuse to understand my point of the matter. You said all “american women were feminist” even before I replied and that was the basis of my point I was TRYING to get across. Did you think that know one would reply to that? Don’t answer that, I won’t be back to this forum. I asked some of my russian friends to read this forum and they have never heard such wishy-washy things. They found most of the topics and comments nothing but “Bad Karma”.
Bye!!!!!!!
tyhigs,
Don’t let the door hit you on the way out!!!!!!
Ding, dong, the witch is dead!
Yes, nice report Tyhigs in comment 31.
I have read the Sexploytation chapters and they are true to form of current AW.
Check out:
http://www.geocities.com/aprilhouse/sexualpower.html?993233090860
These “women” always come in a cryin’ and a blamin’ in a hissy fit of selfish melodrama.
They come in and use logical fallacies also known as red herrings to divert the conversation off topic into childish name calling and meningless drivel. These “women” also participate in active denial or what is known as “cognitive dissonance” about the true way of things/a denail of reality in our current environment. No Doubt Men will constantly have to face these abhorrent women who dare to question our integrity and authority, then these confrontational/opinionated “women” wonder why we take no notice of them anymore.
She was really a waste of commenting space but she did prove a point or rather verify what the men on this site already knew about these frigid “women”.
Actually that Weblink did not work exactly the way I wanted it too but you guys can look up “sexploytation” on the web to find out more.
From C.
Taras, excellent metaphor in comment 20. on the current situation that men today are becoming ever more aware of.
And I have always wondered as well:
are you AW and even some RW happier today after catching the infection called feminism?
A yes or no answer will do.
I like that profound bit that, respect is earned not given. I would also add that AW treat men on a strictly pass or fail basis.
They (AW) demand that all the answers be given to them by men and if we do not then we are hiding something from them or we are guilty of some unforseen criticism!
Men are not going to give you all the answers you have to want to learn from us otherwise how do we know whether you are committed or dishonest? Men do not pander to any women, your obedience is their power base so just stop groveling before women, they do not have any respect for “men” who do this.
From C.
I am a very fortunate individual. Why? I happen to have a wide variety of friends who are from the following countries; Colombia, Nicaragua, El Salvador, Mexico, Honduras, Laos , Burma, Serbia, Yemen, Bosnia, Kosovo, Korea and America. I am a man. They are women. The one universal truth that no one seems to recognize is that if one treats others with dignity and respect one will receive the same in return regardless of whether one is man or woman and regardless of ones nationality. I think that it is also true that all men and woman deep down inside have the same desires, to meet a stable and suitable partner for life. As we move through life and gain wisdom from interaction with those who are different from us, we would do well to understand that basically we are all the same and our aspirations are very similar just packaged a bit differently to suit the culture we currently live in. Any discourse on the relative merits of nationality and woman/man over another is much like arguing over which breed of dog is best at an AKA event don’t you agree?
Hi Paul,
Thanks for the comments and welcome aboard. You have a wealth of travel experience that provides for an equally wealth stash of knowledge. Thanks for sharing and please tell your friends about us! Cheers GL
I am a Russian woman and I can say with all honesty that when I was in Russia I was very very desperate. And so were and still are most of my girlfriends. How could we not be? THere are 20+ women per each men…
(check statistics) So could you please tell us where is that secret place in Russia where women are not desperate? I will send my girlfriends there to get husbands…
Irina,
Can you tell us how you expressed that “desperation”.
Many people say that prostitutes are “desperate” too but it’s all ultimately an issue of free choice in what you do and taking the responsibility to own up to it..
There is “desperation” and there is “pride”.. Most Russian women have tremendous pride in themselves no matter what their circumstances are.
And this is one of the primary points that I’m trying to get across in this post.
Irina and her friends may be one of the growing numbers of Western influenced (read: feminized)Russian women that is most pervasive in large cities like Moscow and St. Petersburg. Like it or not, these cities are ripe for feminist pickings. I would urge American men of this site to leave these large cities alone and concentrate on smaller cities like Kazan, Samara, Cheboksary and Yoshkar-Ola. There’s feminist influence at smaller cities too but not as infected. And I think the women are more naturally beautful in the smaller cities.
Kzarz, I think you’re right. Just 5 years ago, when I would browse through the personal ads of Russian women, there were plenty of beautiful, down-to-earth women who didn’t care about age differences. Today, there seems to be much fewer of those women, at least on the internet.
True story: I was browsing through Elena’s models, and I actually saw the profile of a divorced Russian woman who wrote (in capital letters) that she would not consider a divorced man.
What do you think about Izhevsk? Ever been there?
yeah, I would be very careful with Moscow women nowdays…smaller towns is where you find jems!
Hero,
Haven’t been to Izhevsk but my wife says it is a quaint city much like her home in Yoshkar-Ola.
What is this thing with branding women as “desperate” because they made the first move? Based on what logic a woman should not make the first move? Personally I would prefer a woman who can tell openly what she wants, to a woman who acts like what she is not. Unfortunately my country India has a lot of women who act like what they are not lol
SomeIndian, in the USA a quality woman doesn’t have to make the first move. She’ll be approached by a dozen rich, handsome men as soon as she goes out in public. If an American woman chases after a man then you know she’s desperate.
She’s either desperate or skank-ily horny willing to give it up to anybody.
I went to Russia on business in 1996 and have been going since. My marriage reached its end in 2004 and I have been looking for a wife in the Russian city where I do business. Any differences with British women that I find can be explained by demography and economics. First, more males are born than females in Russia. Males are in the majority until the early 30′s. This is the same crossover age as in the US because of the high male death rates suffered in the US due to gunshot, industrial and auto accidents and drug related deaths. Most of these deaths in the US are concentrated in the black community. Black American women in their later childbearing years do not have a surplus of men to choose from. In Russia the deaths are concentrated in the rural areas. The demography is not important to young educated Russian women in big towns and cities. In the UK, men die more slowly than in the US or Russia and the crossover age is in the early 40′s. British women
In Russia Males die in large numbers from the late 40′s onwards. The “desperate” Russian woman are the singletons in their early 40′s still interested in marriage, usually because they have a small child to support.
However, the economic factors matter. Russian women seem to have an explosion of sexual activity at 18 and became pregnant before they are 21. The men were a little bit older than the two years in the West because they needed to graduate or do their military service. 5 years age gap rather than 2. It was not such a bad deal under the Soviet Union. Financial support from the state was good. On the other hand housing was scarce. So married life started living with the in-laws with a teenage mom and a father in a starter level job. There would be no prospects for a flat large enough for a family but sometimes a one room flat (+kitchen & bathroom) if the woman was on her own. Hey presto, massive divorce rate in the early years. Young man goes out and gets drunk on a Saturday night rather than stay in with the in-laws “my drunken husband”. In a lot of cases the marriage seemed to be little more than a formal stage to having a baby. And what is the incentive to remarry if it means no increase in money and sharing with the in-laws.
Then the collapse of communism. Pensions fell but the pensioners were well organised and had a political party that was a real threat (the Communists). Single mothers were isolated. Financial support for single mothers collapsed. Suddenly they needed husbands. But their rejected men were living at home with parents and didn’t need more rejection. Their sexual needs are catered for by younger single mothers wanting extras. (Russia has a huge sex industry). Also, succesful career women (Babushka brings up the baby) want even more succesful men, even in Russia. Succesful men are always in short supply. But a foreigner can be presented as a success to one’s friends even if he isn’t really. The difference in material wealth can cloud the status issue, so instead of marrying the Assistant Director of the institute you can marry a struggling foreign accountant and call him a businessman. But even so, only about 50,000 RW out of about 80 million (let us say 25 million of childbearing age or 8 million such and single) signed up with international marriage agencies. The publicity comes from jilted AM’s not understanding the culture and claiming they were scammed.
I was playing in a different field. The woman I ended up with was the ex mistress of a powerful man, dumped because she had reached 40. She dumped me en route to the airport for two weeks away to talk about marriage. I still don’t know why a year later. She won’t allow any contact, yet I knew her for 8 years before we dated. She was never desperate. She had money, contacts and her own consulting business. I was moving to Russia.
But to come to the issue of the debate “Russian Women are NOT desperate”. In 1997 many were. Since then, Russia has become one of the world’s strongest economies. And it is not oil. Oil production has grown less than 2% a year for the last 4 years. The economy has been growing around 7%. Capital has returned and business confidence is high. Retail and public administration are the 2nd and 3rd fastest growing segments after construction. Health apart these are the segments that employ most women. So Russian women now have a bright economic future in the fastest growing G10 economy (Russia is G10 without concessions – China has a bubble that is about to collapse. India is growing strongly but not as fast as Russia). The Russian government is now going to pay families a large single payment (the cost of a one room flat outside Moscow) when they have a baby (two babies = a two room flat) and a social security payment about 60% of a typical woman’s earnings (outside Moscow). Russian women in general are about to become very undesperate. Some will still be interested in foreigners because it is how people are but you shouldn’t expect any special advantages. A fat woman who understands you are not always strong could be a much better deal than a thin (temporarily, add 5 kg on marriage, 2+ kg a year for no walking, 5 kg for a baby) woman who really does expect you to protect and nuture her as part of her cultural mindset. Feminism allows the man to go off and be weak sometimes. An RW won’t tolerate that.
Peter said:
“A fat woman who understands you are not always strong could be a much better deal than a thin (temporarily, add 5 kg on marriage, 2+ kg a year for no walking, 5 kg for a baby) woman who really does expect you to protect and nuture her as part of her cultural mindset.”
Peter, I can think of some options that are even better than the two you’ve proposed:
(1) Marry a woman who has enough respect for you and herself to check her weight once a week, and if she does gain a couple of pounds, goes on a diet and exercise regimen until her weight is back down to its original level
(2) If you can’t find the woman described in (1), then stay single!!
Are you sure that Russian women are about to become very “undesperate”? My understanding from reading this blog is that a Russian woman would never prefer a kick-ass career to a happy marriage and family. Plus, women will still outnumber men, and Russian men will be nowhere near as gentlemanly as American men. Anyway, that’s my admittedly uninformed opinion.
I think you have msiread me, Russian Women don’t outnumber men in the relevant age group, childbearing years, bascially under 45. Russian demography is very similar to the USA. Normal Russian men have a strong sense of manners and good behaviour. The comments of divorced women looking for husbands on the web should be seen as coming from the same place as the comments of divorced American/European women. They are not an unbiased sample. Alcoholism, smoking, violence and general macho behaviour are more prevalent in Russia but we are talking 5 or 10% extra not about 50% of the population. My own personal experience is that a Russian woman with a good career will always choose the career over any man short of a dekamillionaire.
But I agree with the generalisation that Russian Women are not even slightly feminist. Their explanations for conflict between men and women are old fashioned ones and strike me as more honest. They do not see identical treatment as equal treatment. They think women lead different lives from men and should lead different lives from men. There is still disagreement but the areas of debate are different.
I was a bit too concise. Russian male/female ratio demography is similar to the USA under the age 45. The USA of course has nore young people.
Hi Peter,
Thanks for your comments and welcome aboard..
Correct.. The younger they are the more equal the numbers are between Men and Women..
However.. and this is a very BIG However…
The number of young Men who have both the emotional maturity and financial ability to even date girls let alone establish a long term relationship with them is completely minuscule.
This is why for example Kate’s desire to find a QUALIFIED young man who is her same age to marry is in my opinion pretty remote. Russian women are expected to get married early at least by the time they are 24.
Beyond that the alarm bells start ringing because they know that their chances for finding a husband are rapidly diminishing.
Not to many 20 to 24 year old Men are capable of doing that in an appropriate way while they are just getting their lives started.
Cheers GL
Rw_man, would you say that there is a time limit with Russian or FSU women on how much longer men have until they just turn into westernized feminazis? Or will they always be the rich-souled, truly feminst beings they are? I also have a point to make and that is concerning how feminists try to paint Western men looking for a Russian wife as desperate fools. How can a man that is A) willing to break a cultural and language barrier B) spend a ton of money on meeting these women C) able to think outside the box and meet a foreign, more compatible woman be a desperate fool? It is an outrageous lie perpetuated by these feminists. I am actually a younger man (21, and that is why I worry about how much longer we men have. Being a mere 21 year old also breaks the myth that the men who seek these women are old, lonely depressed scabs. I also have friends my age interested in Russian women) who has for years now been fascinated by Russian culture, music, literature and history who then naturally has a fondness for the traits these women have. What is so wrong with that? To each his own.
to Gurdow
Only concern yourself with how you paint yourself, with the hopes and dreams you have, the morals and values you have in your upbringing, the integrity and honesty you bring to yourself and your relationships.
I try to follow this advice myself, my parents are gone, so I no longer need their approval, I only need to bring honor to my father’s name, and continue the respect from my children.
and of course it will be frosting on the cake to be accepted by a nice Russian woman.
so as far as the feminist are concerned don’t be concerned.
by the way, I may be old, but I still have the heart of a 21 year old.
Yes Gurdow,
You have discovered one of the Great Truths to Life..
Feminism is NOT Logical.. (ie stupid)
The Foundations behind Feminism are based on the wonderful emotions of
JEALOUSY and SPITE
So if you try to build a movement based on that you are bound to have some pretty horrific after effects.
But here’s where MEN like us WIN.
Nature works in such a way where anyone who tries to live their life on Jealousy and Spite end up lonely, bitter, resentful and basically complete failures in life..
So the only thing people like this have left..
Is to YELL and SCREAM even louder about their “problems” and the “injustices” in the world..
Poor Babies.. Don’t you feel sorry for them?
Gurdown don’t get sucked into any of this hogwash mentality… and certainly don’t worry about it..
Stand your ground when you need to and prove to the world that you are a fine young Man who will someday lead the way for others..
When you do this you will take control of your life and be able to find your future princess in the process.. as opposed to worrying about how or if the world (which is filled with Feminism) will be able to “give you” the Princess you desire..
Get it?
Big Difference in mentality here.. and it creates and Equally Big Difference in Results..
Good Luck.. and please tell your friends about us..
GL
Thank you for your responses rw_man and ceiver. I will surely put these tips into practice.
As an educated, ambitious, American woman, I would just like to say that I’m doomed if this is the outdated, outmoded male mentality for mates and marriage. You want me, a disaffected American, to be your submissive, helpless princess? After hundreds of years of blatant discrimination and relegation to the corners of the laundry room and kitchen, is it any wonder that I seek changes in the system designed to subordinate women? I’m in my Ivory Tower, alright, devising ways to bridge the gender income gap.
Additionally, transpose your women-as-secondary-to-a-man sentiment to Plato’s time and you will find that the song remains the same (and, consequently, that love is only possible between two males).
I revere these women who uphold their mysterious, classy ways in the face of increasingly xenohpobic and unemployed Russian men. In economics terms, it is no wonder that men want their women to stay in the home; they present competition that has heretofore been unencountered.
Boorish..
I’m going to copy paste something just for you to read from my previous post..
http://russianwomentruth.com/2006/08/30/russian-women-as-slaves/
“Jess are you saying that anyone who cooks, cleans, changes diapers and sexually satisfies their partner is a “Slave”?
Well then according to your definition I am a Slave and so are Millions of other Men as well! And you don’t really see us bitching about doing this work now do you?
Are you ALSO telling me that women like you are TOO GOOD to cook, clean, change diapers, and sexually satisfy their partner? Well if that’s the case then you and any Woman who thinks this has ABSOLUTELY NO BUSINESS being involved in a marriage.
Quite frankly all of this Feminist Dogma about being liberated from house work and child care is a pretty poor spin for what the REAL TRUTH is..
The truth of someone who flaunts a “Liberated Woman” tag as a poor attempt to hide that they are just another sad old self-centered narcissist.
“Me me me me me me me.. and oh by the way any problems I have is all a Man’s fault!”
This is called Mass Denial.. And consequently.. the Communist tried to do something very similar.. Their loud screams and bloody purges in the name of “equality” and “liberation” was really a bad cover-up for their own laziness, envy and theft..
Wow.. Doesn’t that sound like a full-on Feminist agenda if I ever heard of one!”
And Boorish (interesting name for a Feminist by the way) I’m going to recommend that you also read the following posts that I’ve written.
http://russianwomentruth.com/2006/11/07/dont-american-women-cook/
http://russianwomentruth.com/2006/09/22/an-open-letter-to-feminist/
http://russianwomentruth.com/2006/08/25/why-american-and-western-women-are-turning-ugly/
http://russianwomentruth.com/2006/11/25/how-feminism-degrades-a-womans-body-and-soul-part-1/
http://russianwomentruth.com/2006/11/26/how-feminism-degrades-a-woman%e2%80%99s-body-and-soul-part-2/
Have fun..
GL
Amazing that Boorish and all the other wimmin who rant and rave here can only hear the preprogrammed tapes that have been drilled into them in their wimmins studies courses. They all sound the same – “you want submissive women, you want stupid women, you want women you can abuse…”
Women like this haven’t been educated to think for themselves. Instead they’ve been encouraged to develop the worst side of themselves – the tendency to substitute incoherent emotion for critical reasoning. Truly ironic.
And by the way Boor, there is no gender income gap. That’s one of the many ideological lies, from junk science, that you’ve been spoon fed because your sistahs know you will swallow any kind of crap without question, as long as it stokes your victim mentality.
I have never taken a women’s studies course. I am a narcissist, thank you for noticing. I get lost in my eyes mostly. I am neither old nor sad. “rw_man,” I will NOT read your posts when I can read the works of tenured professors and academians at accredited institutions about more pressing matters than attacking ambitious women behind the comfort of an anonymous computer screen. I am not preprogrammed; I am an autodidact as well as a student. I do not buy into the mass delusions of love. If you ask me, branding all feminists as radicals who seek to destroy the “institutions” of marriage and family is the same blatant spoon-feeding of which you so freely accuse me. You readily accept that mass generalization perpetuated by the media about feminism. This field of study never could have happened had a woman not started to think for herself. Who isn’t thinking for himself, again?
I don’t hate men so much as I question the propensity to push women into codependence when she can be perfectly self-reliant. Frankly, your immediate feminist labels were wholly predictable. Way to reject challenging ideas by subverting them under paternalistic social constructs.
And let me get this straight, economists like Jeffrey Sachs and institutions like the World Bank are propped up by ideas from “junk science?”
Boorish said:
” “rw_man,” I will NOT read your posts when I can read the works of tenured professors and academians at accredited institutions…”
Boorish, just because somebody has a Ph.D., that doesn’t mean he has a C.L.U.E.
Uh .. and you ARE reading his posts. So what’s up with that?
Boorish, I’ll say right now that I am an academian at an accredited institution, but I’m in finals right now, and thus do not have time to refute all your points.
But I do have time to refute one of them:
Consider your statement:
“Additionally, transpose your women-as-secondary-to-a-man sentiment to Plato’s time and you will find that the song remains the same (and, consequently, that love is only possible between two males).”
If you admit that the belief in Plato’s time that “love is only possible between two males” is a consequence of what you call the “woman-as-secondary-to-a-man sentiment” of the time, then if you admit that we can love someone that is not male, then you would also have to admit that we don’t hold a “woman-as-secondary-to-a-man sentiment”.
Think about it.
If a consequence follows from a condition, and we don’t have the consequence, then we don’t have the condition.
While it is certainly believable that there can be spectrum of beliefs within the feminist continuum, some underlying structures are undeniable.
Boorish : You said “This field of study never could have happened had a woman not started to think for herself. ” Have you really, I mean truly gone back and traced the origins of Feminist thought and construct. You might be surprised, more likely shocked. And not in a pleasant way.
Next: “I don’t hate men so much as I question the propensity to push women into codependence when she can be perfectly self-reliant.”
Yes, maybe some women can. However, many more cannot .. well, that is .. not without going into co-dependence with what some call their other husband, the government.
The government to step in and imbalance the situation by laying impossible obstacles in mens way.
Like quotas. Now hold it, but wasn’t one of the basic tenets “equality”? So you get equality by creating inequality?
Care to tell me what the balance male to female is in universities these days? ( Oh, damn I had to raise that one huh ) Where exactly is the “Mens Studies” department?
Boorish, what is the ratio of women to men hired by H.R. personnel ( predominantly women staffed )
But, there are countless examples of this sort of rigging — sometimes quite dangerous as in firemen or police — and never mentioned by feminists.
You madam, are suffering under a delusion that men have it better.
No, we face the cold reality of the day without anything near the level of support and protections women enjoy.
Who’s not thinking?
The first lie told to Eve, was “Ye shall be as God.” The disastrous consequence was mortality and expulsion from the Garden. But at least, Adam and Eve had each other and they had Love between them and could rely on one another in facing the harsh life ahead. The second lie being told to Eve is “Ye shall be as Adam.” And there will be as disastrous a consequence.
In wanting to be as Man, woman cast out the feminine and take on the masculine. But do feminists not understand nor perceive that masculinity repulses masculinity as the same polarity of magnetism repulses? As I read Boorish’s comment or any feminist articles for that matter, I can’t help but feel a certain repulsion within me. Russian woman understand very well that femininity attracts the masculinity that are in men. That is the fundamental strength of the Russian culture; it is in their understanding of the psychological dance between masculinity and femininity. Instead of downplaying femininity, RW goes to great lengths to enhance it, exhibit it. They know very well that men are attracted to this. It is the secret to their mysterious allure. There is a saying in Russian culture that “The strength of woman is in her weakness.” What man could resist? I can understand why Western Men in droves are turning to RW and understandably wanting them for wives.
Healthy society is built upon the construct of each whole unit of the family. When the family structure comes apart, the foundation for society erodes. I can understand now, why American men are not wanting to get married, even in their forties, fifties.
Man is made for woman and woman for man. Without each other and without Love, each builds a wall of loneliness that over time becomes a type of prison. Some say there is a Hell on Earth. Its walls are built of loneliness; otherwise in Boorish’s words: independence, self reliance.
As GL rightly wrote, it is in our genes. Feminists never had any logic in their deconstruction of differences between male and female. They just can not perceive reality and logic for what it is. Feminists perceive the paternalistic construct of society as outmoded and do not wish to play the submissive role. Upon looking at the animal kingdom, one can plainly see, with the horses, the monkeys, the lions, the relations between the male and female. The males dominate, the females submit. Are they blind to this?
It was prophesied that when love grows cold between men and women then the world shall end. It has for many men with a dearth of choice of loving mates. RW is the last bastion of hope for men who have an affinity towards femininity. The last bastion of hope for true love and happiness.
Luck to all in search of true love.
-M
“I don’t hate men[wtf?] so much as I question the propensity to push[we and they go happily, boris] women into codependence when she can be perfectly self-reliant.”, boris, not Natasha.
Nice moniker sweetie. You call my sisters “Natasha by inference”, and I’ll call you “sweetie by implication”, Dick.
Although I’m sure you bemoan not being a hermaphroditic worm, here we celebrate needing each other, boris. Which is probably why you blame men for not wanting your lardass and bilious bedside manner.
And so far as your, “I will NOT read your posts when I can read the works of tenured professors and academians at accredited institutions about more pressing matters”[so go already],
Just who the eff do you think your prof’s are, sweetkums?
Apparently wiser than God, nature, the whole universe.
You and your sicko-psycho babble are an aberration of God, my dear.
Oh, but of course, you’ve excused yourself out of the whole God argument by dismissing the godforce as a myth. And you infer that GL has a vaunted view of his beliefs? Bletchi.
Anyone who can read can know. Another myth of your “institutions”, which many of us here know firsthand and in perspective.
On the way to Spermatovoidville, instructed by Eunuch Ph.d., your dog-on-a-leash barks out his own institutional pedigree and after his grateful abuse, in his masochistic pose somehow manages to skank, the progeny razed to belittle his little and ask “who is it?” when the dog comes barking at the house that his brilliant snobjob bought and paid for, while once again unsuccessfully attempting a sighting of what “his” might actually look like at this point in his cycle of assraped court induced alimony checks–knock, knock you up … in your dreams, boris.
Isn’t it a bitch when a really beautiful Natasha civil lawyer, who dumps her career overnight, when she learns that he would say yes to her heart’s desire of “Me Tarzan, her Jane, wife and mother”, once again gets her real man, and not you? Isn’t it just a bitch, boris?
My child will not be raised by strangers, dropped of by a Feminazi “career girl”.
Tomorrow is Victory Day. God bless the more than 22 million fallen brave and those wise enough to honour their memory with the normalcy of human nature. My child will be Russian.
Thank God. And thank God my girl is too.
Wanna see something really, really funny, boris? Your butt in Russia trying to get a date. Could make a real cult documentary. Oh, James [Cameron].
Bark, bark, bark.
You may have a clue, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to take it seriously. I’m glad I found a site such as this so I can receive instant, unfounded judgment from complete strangers as a completely foreseen reaction to my divergent thoughts. I never said I believed in Platonic love, brainiacs, I said that the song remains the same; women were second to men then as now. I, personally, do not accept that. I would like to highlight your propensity to dismiss the thoughts of anyone who doesn’t think the way you do. I haven’t read all this blog; I’m not afraid to go interact with living, breathing people.
Here’s what I say about your “wtf?”, ‘Canuck.’
Profanity is a weak mind trying to express itself forcibly.
And I love how you assume that I have rejected God. What makes you think that because I posted a few thoughts on a page means you can know me as a person? Did it ever occur to you that I could be offering different perspective as a social experiment, that I offer stimulus to make predictions about a response?
Here’s what I say about your “wtf?”, ‘Canuck.’
Profanity is a weak mind trying to express itself forcibly.
Not according to my hi-q tests, boris. Although I do have my criticisms for making it more adroit, to include creativity and engineering based numbnuts questions.
I see you still can’t get a date. But apparently you could be offering a social experiment.
“Did it ever occur to you that I could be offering different perspective as a social experiment”
Yes, boris and that’s what really concerns me. All the way to my new real country filled with real girls where my son will never have to leave in order to find someone who adores him for begin real—as opposed to kicked like a barking dog.
I suggest you just continue experimenting on yourself and stop wasting your time on real men. Go back to your barking dogs, boris, because no real man will ever take your lardbutt and bilious psycho babble.
“I said that the song remains the same; women were second to men then as now.”
Not according to anyone here boris. It’s the part about the wussboys as barking dogs though which has pushed us out of skank and into the arms of the most beautiful and Feminine[try to say that three times fast without choking, boris], wise, adoring and maternal girls on the planet.
” I’m not afraid to go interact with living, breathing people.” boris, not Natasha.
So, go already.
Afraid? OMG. Run for your wife Igor. I think I smell a skank Feminazi. Yes, I know Igor it looks likes it might be real, but trust me, it wants to wear your pants. Hold on to your belt, and kiss your svelte. You’ll be back in heaven. Oh, Natasha ….
hello. I am an African-American lady and I have to say that I am traditional and modest and I would love to have a real man! I have read the comments here and I can only guess that there is a chicken and egg thing going on. Men say that women are becoming like men, but a lot of women feel that the men are no longer men. But the men say that they are no longer men becuase feminism has made women men. Whew! *giggle* there are many feminine, soft, submissive ladies here in America. I’m not sure of all the races on this blog, but black girls are very loyal, sweet and will cater to that special man once he has won our heart.
I think they’re in hiding Dawn, for very good reasons……otherwise, they’d be mauled like a cat that got into a pen full of pit bulls. Women such as yourself are disappearing from this society. And they are under attack by the radical feminists at every turn, even though there are young women who are waking up to what is being done to them. I have met a some very nice black ladies over the years, but all of them were married. For the record, I am white and I have Russian and Ukrainian ancestry. I find it interesting how some black women are interested in white men.
Taras
Hi Dawn,
Thanks for the comment. I for one believe the fault primarily lies with feminized and indoctrinated women. This is simply the case because through out history women have always controlled the acceptance and the speed of any man’s advances during any normal courtship.
Most men would love nothing more then to try to please their mate and make her happy and unfortunately this genetic disposition we have has been exploited to our own growing demise in the west.
And in my view.. this is how the vicious cycle begins.
Thanks for chipping in..
GL
Yay my first feminazi… and a jealous, irrational one at that [is there any other type?]
Giselle, you said:
“Ignorantly [Emphasis mine] one sided article which makes blanket statements!”
Please explain how the observations of a Man who has lived there for 3+ years and has interacted with a large number of these women, as well as the comments of the fine, intelligent Men on this site, many of whom have actual relationships with these ladies, can qualify as “ignorant”?
“a Russian womans eagerness to degrade herself by giving the time of day to undeserving and disrespectful men” [...] “All you seem to care about is whether someone is bending over backwards for you”
Please provide evidence of where we advocated such things?
“Yes didnt know a Russian woman who is not married is not considered respectable?”
Pretty refreshing if you ask me. Especially compared to Western Women who are taught that they aren’t respectable unless they have a high-flying career and act like Men.
“I see no mention of what you have to offer, besides a green card.”
Giselle, I believe the qualifications of many of the gentlemen here are listed in the “Don’t American Women Cook” thread. Go and take a look. Plus, many of the guys here, including the site’s author actually choose to LIVE IN RUSSIA. So your green-card point is moot.
Oh, Giselle.. some recommended reading:
http://russianwomentruth.com/2006/08/30/russian-women-as-slaves/
http://russianwomentruth.com/2006/11/07/dont-american-women-cook/
I hope that the men that you labeled “undeserving and disrespectful” don’t find out about it, because they’re not going to be too happy with you once they read that you said that about them.
Personally I’d never put up with skanky women such as yourself labeling me with such terms. I’d cuss them out.
And I’m an American man, and I’m not going to stand for the complete BS that you wrote about digging up dirt on American men.
Everything that you just wrote is trash, and deserves to be crumpled up and thrown in the garbage.
Lady, you just picked the wrong men to mess with.
Giselle,
“Socon, hate to burst your bubble but I am not a feminist or a feminazi. Oh yes and I better add some really important information I am infact Russian.”
By your bitter, angry tone, unsubstantiated accusations: ["undeserving and disrespectful men” […] “All you seem to care about is whether someone is bending over backwards for you”] and other comments ["You seem to think its refreshing that a woman should get no respect unless shes married? This tells me you are a woman hater, who does not believe that a woman has the right to exist on her own"], I correctly concluded that you are either a feminist or a product/follower of their ideology, otherwise known as a feminazi.
“This article seems designed to offend American women, while completely ignoring the social ills of Russian society.”
Yes, there are a few good Western women, and there are many bad Russian women (of which you are an example, if you are in fact Russian.) GL has made the distinction between the good, traditional women in Russia vs. the bad ones. The fact of the matter is that more traditional cultures such as those of Eastern Europe and Asia produce a much higher proportion of such LADIES than do Western countries. And these good women are the ones we are interested in. I believe this issue is addressed in the FAQ which you can read by clicking the link at the top of the page.
And yes, Russia and the FSU countries have many social and economic ills. We are well aware of this.**
“I have seen far too many Russian women get exploited due to their willingness to stand by their men, even if the man is some undeserving abuser, all so she can be respected.”
Irrelevant. We are not “undeserving abusers”. We have never said or done anything on this site to suggest that we are “underserving abusers”. Red herring.
“anyone who does not cook male or female, has a mental disorder”
That is an extreme, and bizarre statement. Well, it did give me a good laugh. Giselle, could you please provide some articles by psychiatrists / psychologists to substantiate it?
“The male counterpart of a feminazi is a serial killer, they are famous for coming from homes with dysfunctional mothers.”
What on earth has any of that to do with the material on this website? :confused:
“Luke, look at what you have just spewed. Your hatred speaks for itself. What happened to you in your childhood [...]” ?
Giselle, I think the real question is: What happened in your life to make you so bitter and angry?
Giselle, your tone and attitude in your comments has been completely rude, uncouth, and irrational. It is YOU who has made ignorant, “blanket statements” which do not stand up to any close scrutiny. From this I can conclude that you are a very angry and disturbed person… I am sorry that you are hurting so much, but the sad reality is We Men had more than enough of women like you. There’s nothing than can be done to help you. You have my deepest sympathies.
** http://russianwomentruth.com/2006/10/01/russian-women-propaganda/
Btw Giselle, were about in Russia are you from originally?
Giselle
“while completely ignoring the social ills of Russian society”.
I would like to know more about the social ills of Russian society. There have been dramatic changes in Russian society in the last 100, and even in the last 20 years. Do you have your own blog? I am sincerely interested in your view as a (Russian) woman.
Giselle,
Obviously your rants have very little effect here and will do nothing to suppress the information or ideas which come from this blog. In fact your venomous tone and energy only justifies what we’ve been saying all along. So please do continue if you wish..
As far as you suggesting “what gives me the right to write about Russian Women”…
May I suggest that if you don’t like what I do that you go to wordpress.com and create you own blog and put the necessary time and energy required to gain an audience who will support your efforts. Heck it’s free too!
Now if you can’t handle that..
Then I’d suggest you be honest and admit that you are jealous of the volume of discussion here and wish to do what you can to snipe and spoil our little parade.
GL
In a round-about way, Giselle actually validates this blog…
“I have seen far too many Russian women get exploited due to their willingness to stand by their men …
i.e. RW stand by their Men. Since we are not exploiters, nothing to worry about.
Also…
“The male counterpart of a feminazi is a serial killer, they are famous for coming from homes with dysfunctional mothers.”
The 3 countries which have produced the most serial killers are USA, UK and Germany. Therefore, women from these countries (and their satellites/imitators) must make up the highest proportion of dysfunctional mothers.
Giselle,
Hmm so “you don’t enjoy whiners like myself… who show lack of social skills.. blah blah blah..”
Sorry woman..
But you just totally exposed your own arrogance and ignorance by doing this..
First..
I don’t believe we have ever had the “pleasure” of meeting.. so I’m certain that when you ass-u-me to know my “social skills” what you are actually doing is exposing your own lack of social graces which I find to be so predictable for a typical angry womyn like yourself.
So all that really exposes you to be is just another mudslinging
L…I…A…R…
Playing the old lets throw mud on the wall and see what sticks game I see eh?
Sorry woman..
But even my basic powers of observation easily outclass you on this one… and you are making it all too easy for me..
Second..
Giselle..
I find it VERY VERY VERY Interesting that you claim to be a Russian Woman yet YOU somehow find offense to my article which asserts that I find a western feminist’s traditional label of Russian Women being desperate as pure hog wash.
In fact you further go on to claim that all Russian Women are more or less totally into relationships for the money.
Now Giselle.. I’m a pretty astute student of people’s motives and character.. and the very first thing your comments tell me is this..
YOU YOURSELF ARE IN IT FOR THE MONEY..
And deep down inside that must make you feel like a cheap whore Giselle..
But NOOOO say you I’m sure…
Because DENIAL is always a first choice to protect your fragile identity which you are obviously trying so hard to hide..
so instead of having the courage to admit this to yourself.. which of course you can NEVER do..
You need to attack your own Russian Sisters and put them into the SAME category that you have created for yourself.
By claiming that all of them are in it for the money..
God Giselle you are so TRANSPARENT and “Naked” here that it cracks me up.. and frankly you don’t look so good “in the flesh”.
And by the way.. you are making my assertions all TOOO easy to prove..
Because why else would a womyn like you spend so much time and energy checking back on this blog and initiating a fight on purpose if you knew that my material wasn’t your cup of tea?
I’m pretty sure I know why..
Because I’ve seen it time and time again with other narcissistic womyn who can’t stand the thought of not getting the answer they so badly wanted to hear when they look into their mirrors everyday and ask..
“Mirror Mirror on the Wall.. Who’s the Fairest of them All”
Sorry Giselle..
But you ain’t as good as Snow White and you NEVER will be.. and trying to destroy her with the poison apple isn’t going to do you any favors as well.
Hell Giselle if I can figure all of this out so easily by your comments alone then I BET that the people in your social circle are starting to figure out who you really are too..
You see Witches in fairy tales can never hide out for too long.. Their ego simply won’t let them do it..
So let me say again.. J E A L O U S Y (green) is a color that doesn’t look too good on you.. I’d avoid it at all cost if I were you..
One more thing Giselle..
I don’t think you are going to get too much mileage for your denial driven ego by hanging out here.. But hell if your a glutton for punishment then by all means please do..
But in the meantime please do us all a favor..
Don’t try to soil the pants of the incredible women here that I have come to know, respect and love…
Especially if you find yourself way overdue for your own diaper change.
GL
Well I only know about Polish women and Polish men, and while it seemed true that Polish women prefer Polish men, at the same time if you have a good looking body and you dress like one of the Polish men, and you don’t dress like an ignorant American wearing a T-shirt and sneakers, then especially in small towns like Zakopane and Rydzyna, the women will receive you very well.
They will blush at you, they will giggle at you, you will be able to take them to out to eat in Rydzyna(at the only place in the entire section in town I was in that there is to eat, LOL.), even if you barely speak any Polish.
And on and on and on.
Oh yeah, and Polish girls also like a guy who is a musician. I know that from first hand experience.
Hello Again Giselle..
Or should I start referring to you as..
Ms I’m in to Men for the money but don’t want other’s to know so I will point fingers at my Russian sisters instead and then try to confuse the issue with more mindless spew..
Why don’t we just give you a new nick name and call you FT (Feminist Tart) for short.
(BTW for any of you guys reading I’m open to other more appropriate or accurate titles on this angry little lady.. so dig in..)
FT..
You are so outgunned here that you sadly don’t even know it..
Whatever points you wanted to originally make were lost in the typical “Lets get angry and emotional and hope someone feels sorry for us ploy.”
God that is sooo old..
Feminist and Liberals like you just love to do that..
No logic.. no common sense..
Let’s just claim that someone is lying and not aware of the facts and put LOTS of crybaby emotional energy into it and win the..
“I just got caught with my pants down but if I cry loud enough and point fingers at someone else maybe i can get away with it”
Award for best over dramatization by a raging feminist drama queen who must not be getting enough attention in her real life because she does a great job of alienating herself with stinky rhetoric..
For the record..
Let me state that I absolutely love REAL Women..
And I love and cherish traditional and classical ladies so much that I was actually inspired to create a blog about them.
Can you say the same?
Also for the record let me state this..
I don’t like womyn like you who are actually Men in disguise.
And you FT are acting like you have more then your normal dose of Testosterone in your system..
And I would hate to imagine what that looks like..
Face it FT..
You are jealous and really pissed off that the Men of this world are not giving you what you want..
And that is more then likely a free meal ticket in return for some very high liability horizontal mambo on your part.
And I feel sorry for the poor bastard who is foolish enough to do that “dance” with you.
GL
I left for Russia in 2005 to meet my Russian woman I met on match-seeker.com I spent 17 beautiful relaxing days with her, and hated to return to America without her. I was not in America 60 days and I was on my way back, and this time to live. We got an apartment and enjoy every day together, I know first hand about the big difference in Russian women, and the feminazi money grubbing, disrespectfull Women libber American lazy woman, lying upon a sofa feeding her fat face watching soap opera’s and planning her next cheating affair. My Russian wife gave me the most buautiful daughter in 2007, and she knows how to respect me, beause I respect her. I was married to my first wife less than 1 year, and my second wife less then 1 year, and both were cheaters and disrespectful money grubbing lying women. Well I like where I am now, and I would not trade my Russian lady for 2 dozen American women. American women have priced themselves out of the market for following the advice of immoral lesbian minded feminazi American women bent on destroying all that is good.
Hi Craigushka,
I’m happy for you in being able to find your true happiness with a real woman. Congratulations on the beautiful girl as well, it is good to know she will be brought up in a good, loving and proper home.
For some reason western culture has deemed a relationship a complicated structure that two people work tirelessly to endure yet never get to a point of simply being happy and in love. I totally believe that love is a simple thing, if both people are willing to sacrifice for the better of the relationship it work flourish under any conditions. Love will flourish, no matter where you are. This is something that Russian girls and American guys seem to understand well, but our native counterparts are totally oblivious to. It is an exciting time that we are able to find eachother and simply love one another for who we are.